Marriage & Divorce - 24 November 2006

If so - how do you know that for sure?

If not - what are you doing about it? Are you worried? Are you trying to fix it? Do you think it is their problem?

2006-11-24 08:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by Alan 7

My ex husband had an affair so we divorced. He is now spending very little time with his son. A friend of mine told me that sometimes spouses who leave a marriage sometimes feel so guilty about what they did they have trouble facing their children. Is this true?

2006-11-24 08:35:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't seem to think he does anything wrong even through our therapist told him he is mentally abusive. I have always been the one who have made the household run and taken care of the kids. Therefore, I feel I'm the one who should stay not him. He is also a mama's boy-also confirmed by our therapist.

2006-11-24 08:31:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, you know how everyone here says things like, do more with your man, wear lingerie, cook naked, blah blah blah. Ok I want to try some of this stuff but I'm like, where do I start? What EXACTLY does one do when seducing your own boyfriend or husband? I need a step by step guide - lol. Ok I'm in my 30's and I'm not stupid I just think I'll crack up or something. Or worse he'll crack up. Help!

2006-11-24 08:28:46 · 15 answers · asked by Ade 6

My wife is going to California next week starting Sunday for work.
She travels out of town about 2 times a year. Its always a large group of people (as far as i know).
She left her work laptop here at home, and it was still running when she ran to the store.
I'll admit i snopped a little - and I found an email titled "California here we come"
It was from a guy named Wayne - no idea who that is - and the only thing he wrote was
"I cant wait to be with you for 6 days."
If i confront her - she will know i was snooping -
BUT...can that email mean something innocent??
I dont want to jump to any conclusions if there is a possibility that email can be taken a different way.
On the weird side of things - i found the email yesterday - and my wife and i had awesome sex last night. Its almost exciting for some reason to think about her sleeping with another guy for a week.
Should I confront her?? Can that email be read differently??

Thanks

2006-11-24 08:26:45 · 25 answers · asked by daves_1348 1

My daughter, my step daughter, my sisters son, my other sisters step daughter are all on the same basic holiday custody arrangements with each of their other parents. This year we will all have those kids on Christmas Eve and not Christmas day. I would like to have a Christmas Eve lunch thing at my house this year so that they will be able to open presents in front of the person who bought it for them instead of what happened year before last when they all had to open their presents way later and pretty much alone. Since we have such a big family with many more kids I want to still have the traditional Christmas day thing. (everyone else shouldn't have to change their lives because of our custody arrangments).

My question is this; I would like to send out invitations to the Christmas Eve lunch and I want it worded nicely. I don't want to say 'hey, bring my kids presents over early'

Any Suggestions??

2006-11-24 08:25:14 · 9 answers · asked by JayCee 2

im 15 and have no intentions of marring in the near future!
i just want to know wht marrige is like.
do you not get bored with each other??

2006-11-24 08:10:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-24 08:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by idwill 1

My husband and I have been married almost two years. Before we were married we would have sex about everyday. Now we might have it about once every two weeks. What is going on? He tells me that it is not me. I ask him have I changed since we gotten married and he says no. Then when I try to get him in the mood he tells me that he thinks that all I want from him is sex. I can't help that I always want to have sex and he don't. I don't know what to do anymore. I am so fed up that I can see myself getting it from somewhere else. Please help.

2006-11-24 08:01:55 · 22 answers · asked by Missy 1

I've been married for six years. Nonetheless, I'm addicted to porn. My wife found out years ago, but I "changed" and she thinks I haven't touched the stuff since. However, I still view porn secretly since she is completely against it. I don't think I'll ever be able to stop looking at porn. I have tried to kick the habit so many times I can't count them, and I have been addicted for about 15 years. I even sought professional counseling, but it didn't help. My question is, should I confess again to my wife, even though I think she may take our kid and leave me? Or should I continue to live with this dark secret?

2006-11-24 07:59:45 · 21 answers · asked by CrazyDavey 1

my husband love me I know it but he never says I love you I am beautiful but he never say me it.I tired to him

2006-11-24 07:52:29 · 7 answers · asked by lika l 1

I logged onto her myspace page after reading her public comments. She doesn't know I can log on to her myspace page. But after reading some of her public comments I had too. I found out that she has someone on the side that is also in the army. Should I confront her about it and maybe mess up our relationship?

2006-11-24 07:43:09 · 20 answers · asked by natedogg382 1

I am looking to get my husband a really nice christmas gift.

2006-11-24 07:41:53 · 10 answers · asked by midnightwolf99_2000 3

I want to make it tastfull trying to approach her on this tactfully without making her feel weird about it. Any sugestions?

2006-11-24 07:32:20 · 22 answers · asked by ken s 1

I was reading all the replys I recived about my hubby not putting out for weeks, Now I need help but it's going to be hard.

2006-11-24 07:29:41 · 21 answers · asked by tiger 1

2006-11-24 07:25:22 · 20 answers · asked by houney 2

if you had a ex husband that told you want to do what would you say to him?

2006-11-24 07:25:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone was to live to only 40 years old, will their mid life crisis start at 20? or is someone was to live to 100 will it start at 50, in short does the amount of time lived affect when you have a mid-life crisis?

2006-11-24 07:17:26 · 12 answers · asked by Dr. Yasha 3

I am 18 and engaged to my bf of 2 1/2 years. Recently i have started college and well he chose to leave after first month. I dont understand why he keeps blowing up at me for everything i have tried to speak to him about it but that makes it worse.I finally picked my major and minor( buisness/ communications) and was so happy i went to tell him and he blew me off.I recently found that i enjoy acting was in a play with a friend he put me down for no reason saying it was B.S.My cousin recomended me to try some commercial modeling for some extra cash since i am 5 ft 6 106 ponds, high cheek bones, olive skin, big dark brown eyes/cury hair, and a clear face.This made him angry enough to threaten to break up with me if i did.

2006-11-24 07:13:08 · 13 answers · asked by Penny D 1

My husband and I are considering divorce and I am polling the community to get an idea of whether I have any chance of remarriage. I am 29 and I have a 2 year-old.

2006-11-24 07:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by Nitris 3

...or attracted to another woman? Has anyone ever moved or quit a job because of this? Just curious.

2006-11-24 07:09:43 · 8 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5

I think that my husband was cheating on me. He keeps his cell phone close by and does not even let the kids see it. He was coming in late at night, getting out of bed and saying he was going to the store to get something to drink and would be gone for about one to two hours. I would call him and he would not answer his cell phone. He has had three four female friends that he did not tell me about, but I found out about them, by snooping through his stuff. I had found text message that have been odd. He denies that he had an affair with these ladies. He says that they are just female friends and that I am just jealous. I want to believe him, but my suspicions tell me that there is more to the story. He says that he has said things to them that were not appropriate but still denies any sexual contact. I told him that he had to cut off all relation with them or I woul d leave him. He is an assistant pastor and he agreed. We have not had any contact from them in about 6 months.

2006-11-24 07:09:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-24 07:09:24 · 14 answers · asked by ♠Whoa!♠ 2

I really loved this girl, I thought she loved me too, but now I know she used me to fulfill her needs both sexual and other wise. She later dumped me and got married to an American of Indian origin. She now wants me to make love to her just once, She is very unhappy with her sexual life.I still love her and I’d love to get intimate with her even if means for just a night. Does anyone think I should go ahead with it, Don’t you think its my turn to use her?

2006-11-24 07:08:58 · 6 answers · asked by Joltbolt 1

My hubby's Mom recently passed away. She made a point of letting both of us know that she didn't like me. Which caused me to stay clear of her. Everyone says that it was her and not me in fact, she didn't like any of his exgirlfriends. Now hubby seems to resent me because I wasn't close to her. He doesn't want a divorce or to separate. I know it'll take time for him to deal with the death of his Mom and I'm there all the way. How do I know enough is enough when he seems to be taking his loss out on me?

2006-11-24 07:08:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-24 07:04:20 · 20 answers · asked by chatiniux 1

For the last month we have done is fight! I caught him in a big lie. Well then the kicked me out at 1:00am. I had a friend pick me up. I went home the following night. We have been sleeping in seperat rooms.(my choice) Well we were trying to work it out. The last night, We had another huge fight and he locked me out. I had to call the police to get in. I never nag, yell or control him. I truely thought we had a good marriage. One min he is super nice and the next he's playing games. He told me that he wants to fix this mess. But, I just feel it's getting worse. I feel as if I don't have a hubby and I don't have a home. The house is in both our names. But, he knows i will NOT fight with him. It's just easier to say the hell with it and leave untill the next day or untill things cool down. I am so fed up with feeling this way. And I just don't know what to do. I truely love this man. I want to be with him for the next 100 years! But, i cant take this crazyness in my life! HELP!

2006-11-24 06:58:53 · 23 answers · asked by Just me 2

Ok I just got marry and I love my husband so much. But I was hurt that on the second week he got a second job. So now I barely see him only to go to sleep. We both work and we are good on our bills his a mechanic so he has to pay this $5,000 tool that he wants to pay off. I know he got the job for a good reason I know he loves me and we talked about it and I told him that I try to understand but it still bothers me and his patient with me but deep down it kills to be home after work by self in our house. Please give me some advise I really need it.

2006-11-24 06:58:51 · 5 answers · asked by nena24 4

a friend has told me she was involved with a minister/policeman and he was married infact for 40 year's and she was in love with him and he loved her i told her that i would see what the ppl say's so here it is? but i thought it is wrong?

2006-11-24 06:58:50 · 12 answers · asked by mishoney 4

My husband is driving me crazy..... all he ever thinks about is the house being clean..... is that a sickness???? every single part of the house has to be spotless!! is that normal???

2006-11-24 06:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous