a friend has told me she was involved with a minister/policeman and he was married infact for 40 year's and she was in love with him and he loved her i told her that i would see what the ppl say's so here it is? but i thought it is wrong?
2006-11-24 06:58:50 · 12 answers · asked by mishoney 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once a cheater, always a cheater...she can love him knowing it will never go any further than their sinful trysts
2006-11-24 07:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A minister/policeman? I didnt even know those exist! Anwyays. You cant just judge someone based on your narrow statement. We need to know who is she currently with, if her spouse is a good/bad man. There are several factors that create a cheating stituation. To just point out and say: wrong! wrong! and throw stones its just too primitive and very, very ignorant. And no! I am not a cheater, have never done it, never will but I get sick and tired of people who makes asumptions without knowing all the facts
2006-11-24 15:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as a person is married cheating is wrong regardless who does it.And if he is a minister of all people should know better, calls himself a man of God and stands up and preaches to others when he is a a Hypocrite.he better step down and leave a real man of God take his place.
2006-11-24 15:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.. if he will cheat on his wife, he will cheat on her.
There's no excuse for cheating. Period. No questions asked. It's wrong. He's not going to leave his wife unless she finds out, and then he'll probably just try to patch things up with her. What your friend is doind is more than just morally wrong, it's stupid. Ask her how she would feel if she knew that her husband/boyfriend was cheating on her. That's what she's doing to this woman.
2006-11-24 15:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has she been involved? I would tell her to stop until/unless he leaves his wife. otherwise she just might be getting her hopes and he may never leave his wife knowing he'll have to pay alomony since he will be in the wrong. but if they stop seeing each other for a little while and he leaves his wife she technically wont' be the cause of it so he wouldn't be found at fault of the failure of marriage. good luck.
2006-11-24 15:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by catdogpenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them are wrong. The fact that what they're doing is taboo is probably what keeps them excited about the affair. I would send a letter to the congreagation of this minister and expose him. Then he can tell his lies about asking forgiveness in public.
2006-11-24 15:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong in a way but in another way its not becasue say that the guy and his wife havnt been getting along or there only together for there kids there could be so many reason why he is cheating but i would say that it wrong if they want to be together then they should be together he cant have his cake and eat it to
2006-11-24 15:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what goes around cam around, but her self in the woman shes. she should stop her beain with that men is runien her chance for the right man to came. plz tell her to stop westinh her time a leave him to his wife it's wrong.
2006-11-24 16:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are in love then, hey he needs to leave his spouse,lifes too short to stay where you don't want to be. Hope she finds happiness with this man.
2006-11-24 15:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is wrong for doing this and the guy most likely won't leave his wife for her so she's probably setting herself up..
2006-11-24 15:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋