I want to make it tastfull trying to approach her on this tactfully without making her feel weird about it. Any sugestions?
2006-11-24 07:32:20 · 22 answers · asked by ken s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Show her examples of what you'd like to do.
2006-11-24 07:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to make a movie of such a private and intimate thing like that? Are you going to show it to your grandchildren?
"Tastefully" and "tactfully" don't even belong in your explanation. And, by the way, there is no such thing as a "private home movie", especially one like this.
Try to find some other way to satisfy the prurient side of your nature and spare your wife the embarrassment of being asked to do this.
2006-11-24 15:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My suggestion is DON'T.
There is no safer place to stuff your material after it's finished.
One day you will be checking the net for whatever and will be amazed to see your on material exposed. Maids that steal these private videos from bosses. Angered neighbors, your kids friends, uninvited people that get access to your home or your computer. Don't . you may regret later!
2006-11-24 15:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Maka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to make it tasteful at home because there a lot of nuances that you need to follow......it requires technical expertise and a lot of people.....keep it simple......its erotic as it is. You can work on the set up.....candles, lighting etc......and after a few drinks.....u can try to approach the matter.
2006-11-24 15:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should be comfortable enough to ask her things seeing as she is your wife. just ask her is she has ever thought about filming herself during sex. if she says no, then put the option out there. if she is like most women, a one word answer isnt going to happen and which every way she decides, she eill have reasons behind it.
2006-11-24 15:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start small with pictures or something like that. Don't be nasty about it, just ask her opinion on it first (though u should already know) then approach her with a camera.
2006-11-24 15:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ ღAngelicaღ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her or hint at it. Have it close by and say "Baby, wouldnt this kind of fun filming ourselves doing it?" something to that. Make up your own if you dont like mine. It worked for me!!
2006-11-24 16:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her "hypothetically" if she would be weirded out by it. If she seems intrigued, work it into your lovemaking one night (but make sure she's into it first).
One more thing...she may be more amenable to the idea if SHE gets to hold on to the tape!
2006-11-24 15:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
use a hidden camera and post the results on the net for critiques. repeat until you get rave reviews then show her and have a laugh about the whole thing
2006-11-24 15:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First thing is she comfortable with it? If so then it has to be for you two only..thats alot of trust for anyone, agree to destroy it if anything every happens between you two!!
2006-11-24 16:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by sweetkisz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it- you will be disappointed in your screen debut. Anyway, those things CAN and WILL come back to haunt you. But you're gonna do it anyway aren't ya?
2006-11-24 15:35:38 · answer #11 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋