what is marrige like? is it boring?

Question

im 15 and have no intentions of marring in the near future!
i just want to know wht marrige is like.
do you not get bored with each other??

Answer 1

Marriage is definitely NOT boring. Marriage is a lot of work by both people to make a happy life together. Many people get married too early and realize they are not ready for the work it takes to make a marriage last a lifetime.

Answer 2

Omegosh, I wish I had Time!! Wait, wait! until you're maturing at around 25 or so. People may laugh at this, but keep your virginity.Reason: the more men you respond to emotionally and sexually, the less responsive you become. That's why the more marriages people have gone through, the more chance of failure.Yes, date and have fun, but don't get serious. Don't confuse puppylove with the real thing. If you marry a guy who is, say 18, when he turns 25 or so, you'll wonder why on earth you married that total idiot. Girls mature mentally and emotionally earlier than boys. So abide your time, and if you're Christian, pray for him (even though you don't know him) for God to protect him from making too many stupid mistakes. More and more young women are becoming aware of this; I understand that back East there is a Virgin's Club, based on precisely these principles. Honey, I wish you all the very best from the bottom of my heart. And NO!! if your marriage is based on all the right principles, it will never ever be boring, because then, and only then sex can be stupendously great and wonderful, and worth waiting for! I know of two older couples who have been married a long time and still can't keep their hands off each other. And please, try to qualify for the honourable right to wear a truly white wedding dress !!

Answer 3

Marriage is a lifelong commitment.

That is the reason you marry after maybe 25.
Enjoy being young first. Marriage is a teamwork of earning a living, running a home, and raising an excellent family.

It can be boring, but like all stages of life you have to work on keeping it interesting.

Today we are both being boring, BUT we are not bored. I am doing my thing and he is doing his. We do not have to live and breathe the same air every moment of every day.

Yesterday we had a houseful of children and grandchildren and great food and fun.

After 39 years of marriage some days are interesting, some annoying and some fun.

In my family both sets of my grandparents were married over 50 years, my great grandparents over 50 years. and my parents were married 61 years. So as you can see I come from a family of commitments. My brothers have been married 35 years and 50 years.

Marriage is a job. It is always work to keep it
interesting. But it always seems better than the alternative. Being alone.

Answer 4

Marriage can be boring - but being single can be boring as well. I was single 'til I was 30. I enjoyed it, but I was lonely and wanted a family. I went through lots of relationships and just didn't feel like
my needs were being met.

Marriage is not always fun or exciting, but there's a great sense of security and meaningful sharing that you may not get while single. But for me, it's nicer to have a loving companion if you do want to do something.

It's a good question and although you are young, it shows a lot of maturity in you that you'd consider these topics. =)

Answer 5

I think marriage is what you make it. I know couples who have been married for years and still are fascinated and very much excited about what they have together. I think it's easy to get bored with each other if you're doing the same thing over and over and not working on coming up with new things to do with each other. Also, it's also a good thing to have a life outside of thee marriage - for example you spend time away from each other with friends.

It all depends on the person and the way the perceive marriage. A lot of persons think it is boring so when they get married, they do nothing to make it exciting.

Answer 6

I can say NO not with the spouse I have now, And No it is not boring that is not for me. I am glad you mention your age because you should not even be caring,thinking of this grownup word/life style called marriage. Marriage can be a good relationship spent with the right person when BOTH Partners are friends first lovers second and they both LIKE each other by this you will never get bored with each other.

Answer 7

It depends ultimately on who you end up marrying. I think everyone has a different experience which explains why some people end up staying married for 50 years and other marriages end up in divorce.

Marriage after awhile can be monotonous...doing the same things over and over with nothing new...I have struggled to spice things up with my husband but he can be quite dull at times. Plus there are kids involved. We have five kids and my husband has a crazy work schedule....Pretty much life for me is cleaning the house, taking care of kids and staying home 24/7 while my husband goes out and works...it gets boring and I wish he would take me out but nobody ever babysits for us so we don't get a break.

We do get bored...there are often times we wish we could go out and do other things but we have our family obligations and it causes arguments and resentment sometimes...

I think you should make sure you get to have fun during your youth before you make that commitment. There's a reason whey they call it a commitment...because sometimes you feel like you need to be "committed"....LOL

Hope this helped....Take care....

Answer 8

Sweetie, you don't have any business getting married in the near future...when you're older, you'll find you may have the desire to be someone's partner long term...until the idea of being with just one person (romantically) appeals to you, then don't marry...

Marriage, like any other relationship, is whatever the parties make it...it can be exciting, sweet, romantic, abusive, hurtful, boring, dull, or anything else...

If a couple doesn't like their marriage, they need to work on changing it...or moving on...

Answer 9

Marrige for some is great, I always tell my girls 35 know younger so they can have a life for themselves first. Can it be boring? Yes it can, it can very nice or can be the worst decsion ever, get to know the guy very well before you get married.Once you are old enough to do so. It matters knowing them well otherwise it could end in Divorce like me.

Answer 10

Marriage is all up to you and your partner. If you have a good relationship it will not be boring. My first two years of marriage was great. I learned how to due a lot of crafts, to decorated my apartment with and had my friends and family to visit when hubby was at work. I cooked for him and kept his place clean. When the babies started coming I was never bored.

Marriage is beautiful depends completely on you and you partner.