Marriage & Divorce - 24 November 2006

we've been living together for 6 years. he went through a nasty divorce before me. he says he hates women. pays more attention to porn than me. his actions have been worse since i became disabled 3 yrs ago. he financially supports me. i need more respect from him.

2006-11-24 03:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by punkbun03 3

Yesterday my husband , my daughter and I ate Thanksgiving dinner with my Husbands family. During dinner both of my sister's in law's boyfriends as well as one of my brothers in law hit on me. Needless to say I now don't want to eat Christmas Dinner there. How do I get my husband to change our plans without giving him some idea that I am now uncomfortable with the males in his family?

2006-11-24 03:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4

My brother and I are in disagreement here and I hope someone can help. Our parents got divorced when we were young, and now we are both over 18 (I'm 22 he is 20) our sister is 17. Our father owes our mother a lot of money in child support. My brother seems to think that debt should be absolved because we are over 18. I disagree. I think he still owes my mother this money even if the amount stopped accumulating when we turned 18. Who is right?

2006-11-24 03:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by NJ 4

My husband and I have been seperated since the birth of my son he has given me 390 in the past 2 1/2 months to support him. He makes 4,000 a month, will the court order support to go back to the day I filed or the day of court?

2006-11-24 03:00:41 · 7 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

Love brings you both pleasure and pain.

For every day of companionship there are days of loneliness.
For every love there has been heartbreak.

If the game of love were football, my score would be 14-3 pain winning over pleasure, at halftime.

What's your score? And is this game really worth playing?

2006-11-24 02:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by hankthecowdog 4

My 15 year old son, wanted to try to live with his Dad. His dad has been absent most of his life, but I had promised him that if the day ever came where he wanted to do that I would let him. (Now, I said that thinking since his father had not been part of his life and he held alot of hostility that he would never want to live him). Lo and behold, much to my dismay, it happened and I had to be true to my word. Since my son has moved, his father still is not putting any time into him. Last summer, he sent him to live with his paternal grandparents and would come and get him so he would mow for him. His father drinks, can't hold a job, and splits up with his wife every few months. If my son talks about me or any member of my family he gets grounded. If he watches sports and is not for the same team as his dad he gets grounded also. My son also says he is not allowed to tell me other things that are going on, his phone calls are monitored most of the time. Is this abuse?

2006-11-24 02:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by stacey h 3

2006-11-24 02:37:55 · 10 answers · asked by Dave 2

i was married by the court in Florida and in the church in Ohio. If I divorce, are there special considerations because of this?

2006-11-24 02:35:29 · 3 answers · asked by ryansmommy 1

2006-11-24 02:15:03 · 11 answers · asked by shemale with dick 1

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now the only thing is we have nothing to talk about anymore?? Like online we don't know what to say to each other?? Its as if we've covered everything?? Does that mean we're not right for each other?? I love him to death.. Please guide me.

2006-11-24 02:10:44 · 12 answers · asked by Amal-Love 1

2006-11-24 02:03:48 · 18 answers · asked by neutral 2

While driving? sitting on the couch? etc

2006-11-24 02:03:41 · 19 answers · asked by hillarydemplanforwar 1

We have been divorced for 10 years we have two sons, 15 and 11. He has had very little involvement throughout their years. He lives two states away and has never visited them. He would go for months without even calling them and wouldn't even send cards for their b-days. Two years ago, he started calling our oldest son and persuaded him to come and live with him. Since our youngest son said he would never want to live him, he cut off all contact. I even tried to convince my ex that he needed to start calling his son and he said it wasn't his responsibility.

Since then my son has called him once to invite him to his 5th grade graduation, he said he couldn't make it, but would send him some cash. It never came! Just another big let down for my son.

My son is very upset over his father and is having a hard time. But the other night his dad called him out of the blue and acted as if nothing had ever happened. How do I help my son with this deal with this situation?

2006-11-24 02:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by stacey h 3

2006-11-24 01:59:50 · 21 answers · asked by stn040468 1

my husbands exwife who he has a young child with is making my life a living hell.she hates the fact that i married her husband and has a great relationship with her son.she bad mouths me to my inlaws to start trouble,does not allow me to have any contact with the school or the sons friends.i'm not allowed to watch "ken" when my husbands not home.i have never given her a reason to not trust me or said anything bad about her in front of ken.the worst part is my husband will not stand up for me and allows her to do this.he said he can't control what she does which is true but he is constantly helping her out like giving her extra money,watching ken when its not his day so she can go out and the list goes on.this upsets me the most when my husband accomidates her when he does not have to.i understand he wants to keep peace for kens sake but should his ex wife have so much control over our lives and say and do whatever she wants and my husband just ignores it?should i just let it go?

2006-11-24 01:57:39 · 8 answers · asked by marymackey08 1

I will go shopping and come back and he will make mean comments about things i buy.He stays home and he wont even clean up and yet we both work full time.He was never like this i feel i should just walk out,i have tried to talk to him and he never listens, he claims he is sorry and he does the same things again...Thank God i have no kids i would have lost my head if i had him and kids i sometimes feel like i live with a child that is always fighting with me.please help

2006-11-24 01:57:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you've forgiven you partner for cheating? It's been 2 years and I'm still in limbo.

2006-11-24 01:56:27 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay my daughter was in the Army & got out in Feb this year. She has a fiance for over a year & he went overseas to Afghanastan for 7 months she was 100% faithful to him. They just had newborn twin babies together. She drove 18 hrs to surprise visit him & when she got there he held the babies for 5 minutes and said he was going to work & that was 3 days ago he never came back. Upon looking around his apartment she discovered he was married had 5 kids with 6 other women & he had other womens underwear around the house. He left her stranded with no gas money or food with 2 babies. I was trying to get a western union to her but she didn't have enough gas to make it to the nearest western union. So i called his command & told them she was stuck there & if i could get someone out there to give her a ride. The guy said her boyfriend is in big trouble for adultry. I was only trying to get her help not get him in trouble. Should i feel bad? His military career is probably going to end now.

2006-11-24 01:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by ashley 2

something with your spouse that you never thought you were capable of doing, and once you did it, you loved it, and what was it?

2006-11-24 01:54:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your partner of twenty years was loving and affectionate to your face, but you discovered he was pulling you to pieces behind your back to his family - who don't like you by the way - would it make him a coward, desperate for their approval, or would you wonder if he was really wanting out of the relationship??

2006-11-24 01:45:31 · 28 answers · asked by nellyenno 3

My ex is being very unreasonable about what I do with our kids when I have them at weekends, saying I can't take them to my parents because she doesn't like them (even though our kids love going there), and accusing me of keeping an untidy house. How can I deal with this? Her threat is that she won't let me have them at weekends if I'm going to take them to my parents, let them get dirty playing in the park, etc...? I could just tell her where to go, and insist on my rights to have access to them, but it's not really my style, I'd rather solve things amicably.
Suggestions please. Tomorrow morning I face an interrogation about where I'm going to take them.

2006-11-24 01:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by pantocool 1

My husband and I finally lashed out at each other physically last night after threatening each other with divorce for the past few mths. He makes me feel like an unfit mother which has never helped the fact that I've had health issues since her birth. We're financially not doing too good either and he's not concerned. He's older than I am and has no savings, no retirement plan, no back-up plan. Neither do I but I am 10 yrs younger than him and have started to remedy the situation. I worry constantly. He works retail and is content with the hours (he works every weekend and some evenings) and the pay. He just hasn't snapped out of his bachelor-like lifestyle since our daughter was born. He lives his life day after day which makes no sense with a kid. He has no ambition for us and does nothing to better our life. I convinced him to go back to school for his BA which he drags his feet with. I don't know what to do anymore. Last night was the worst "exchange" ever. I can't do this anymore.

2006-11-24 01:30:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

cheating

2006-11-24 01:29:59 · 19 answers · asked by Sugar girl 1

2006-11-24 01:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by Garry C 2

you found out that your partner is cheating on you?

2006-11-24 01:21:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont understand why the only person i trusted steal my money and lies. i leave whit for long time. he justed to say i love you .i found he steal 5 years behind my back,why he leave me and used my and not even paid what he esteal. then i fell hurt and betrayed.

2006-11-24 01:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by dollarbil110 1

explain what will cost you in your future?

2006-11-24 01:18:28 · 14 answers · asked by voltz 1

My wife tells me that she has been having a mfm fantasy. So I played along and asked her who was involved in the fantasy. She told me that it involved me and a good friend of mine. He is a pretty hot guy, and very well endowed, which I am not. Should I be concern?

2006-11-24 01:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel, any girl will prefer to marry an unmarried guy instead of marrying a divorced guy. If that is so, how good young loyal guy like me, who got divorced because of extra-ordinary situations, can get good partner in their life? I am talking only about arranged re-marriage and not love re-marriage.

I am software engineer (age 27) working for a big MNC earning very good salary. Don't smoke/drink. I am very flexible, loving, caring, practical and tradational. Do you feel I can get a good educated loving wife?

2006-11-24 00:56:47 · 13 answers · asked by SimpleGuy 1

in terms of the size of a guy's penis...

2006-11-24 00:53:45 · 19 answers · asked by lmap 1