i dont understand why the only person i trusted steal my money and lies. i leave whit for long time. he justed to say i love you .i found he steal 5 years behind my back,why he leave me and used my and not even paid what he esteal. then i fell hurt and betrayed.
2006-11-24 01:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by dollarbil110 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lovers steal from us because -
1. it's easier to con someone who loves & trusts you.
2. there is NO way to prosecute them if you knew them romanticly. (See love fraud website for details.)
3. they need you to be broke and defenseless as a means to contol you.
4. IF you vent your anger, or tell your friends, YOU will be the one who is humiliated over it. You'll be told how stupid you were to trust them, how could you believe such a liar, etc?
Love Fraud victims are punished by society, scorned by the police, and left to go it alone. You were robbed of your money, robbed of the truth, and betrayed by everyone.
I will never be able to trust ever again.
2006-11-24 01:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we sometimes see only what we want to see, we put our trust into a person who had no intention of being fair. sure it hurts us, to be betrayed, because we blame ourselves, we are madder at ourselves, because we believe we should have somehow been able to see it, but we truly are to blame for nothing other than loving the person way too much.u need help in getting through this, have any close friends, maybe your minister, if u don't have a church find one now. the sin belongs to him, not u. yes u will feel hurt for awhile it is normal eventually the hurt will get easier as time passes. next time you find a relationship, before falling in love, look into that person's past, is he someone u can trust, or have u heard stories about him, can u rely on him, has he shown u he is trustworthy. we sometimes have to look close at anyone we want to let into our hearts. he is just a thief, and one day it will come back to him, one day he will get exacly what he has given to u. so sorry, and please move on, expect no more from this looser.
2006-11-24 09:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been robbed, betrayed and totally disrespected. Why? because you allowed it. I'm sure you "LOVE" him. he meanwhile is stealing from you and probably cheating on you. This Guy is not a very honest person. Do you really believe that he loves you? he loves you so long as he can take from you. he's probably in your bed wondering what else he can take from you or worse yet thinks about another woman.
2006-11-24 09:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever any relationship is built on a faulty foundation, it usually ends up on a woeful or chaotic state. Very unfortunate that this has happened to you. But I think it's now a lesson that the next time you're engaging in a relationship with another guy, please take your time to do things in a step-by-step approach. Never rush any step or jump any stage in a relationship - it's bound to backfire.
2006-11-24 09:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should seek professional help see a lawyer as he should not be aloud to do that it is a criminal offence and you can prosecute. This will enable you to receive all of the money and other belongings in which he stole of you.
2006-11-24 09:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you trusted the wrong person ,We cant say that all the people are alike
2006-11-24 09:25:18
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