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I will go shopping and come back and he will make mean comments about things i buy.He stays home and he wont even clean up and yet we both work full time.He was never like this i feel i should just walk out,i have tried to talk to him and he never listens, he claims he is sorry and he does the same things again...Thank God i have no kids i would have lost my head if i had him and kids i sometimes feel like i live with a child that is always fighting with me.please help

2006-11-24 01:57:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

17 answers

This might sound hectic, but it works. "If the heat is on, you must be ab le to walk away in 9 seconds"

Life is too short to dedicate it to someone that has become lazy and unloving. Believe me, there are better people worth dedicating your life to... and they not too far away

2006-11-24 02:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tzvi 1 · 0 0

Tell him you're not happy with his actions, then give him time to change and if he doesn't leave him. If he's not trying to work things out don't keep wasting your time with him. You don't want to be married for years to a selfish person. You can never get time or years back. And you definitely don't want to bring kids into this situation.

2006-11-24 02:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0 0

There are people in the world who fight to have fun, if you are not one of these people then leave him. One year is not much time but I don't think things will get better. Good luck.

2006-11-24 02:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0 0

I'm sure this all didn't happen two seconds after you got married! You knew what you were getting into, so take a deep breath and try deal with things as best you can.

2006-11-24 02:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0 0

My Dear, men are like that but my advice is that discuss with him to take a house help to be helping u cleaning the house. please dont think of walking out of your marriage an adage says the devil you know today is better than the angel you dont know (meaning is that the man you know today with his character is better than the one u dont know). Also pray for him, he will change

2006-11-24 02:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by yemoo 2 · 0 0

If your not happy maybe its time you spend some time apart and then after a good month or two realize what you both want.

2006-11-24 02:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0 0

well, you having no kids makes the divorce easier. you should leave him and find someone else, since you tried talking to him and he won't listen, there's no way you can make this marriage work.

2006-11-24 02:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0 0

He is probably not mature enough for marriage. Explain to him that if he doesn't start showing you some respect, you will leave. And it would be rightful to do so. You deserve to be respected in your marriage.

2006-11-24 02:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 1 0

Marriage is for better or worse, maybe try writting him a letter, or send him an email, there is something you can do.......never give up.....may God bless you

2006-11-24 02:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0 0

Divorce him and be more selective in your next choice of husbands.

2006-11-24 02:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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