Okay my daughter was in the Army & got out in Feb this year. She has a fiance for over a year & he went overseas to Afghanastan for 7 months she was 100% faithful to him. They just had newborn twin babies together. She drove 18 hrs to surprise visit him & when she got there he held the babies for 5 minutes and said he was going to work & that was 3 days ago he never came back. Upon looking around his apartment she discovered he was married had 5 kids with 6 other women & he had other womens underwear around the house. He left her stranded with no gas money or food with 2 babies. I was trying to get a western union to her but she didn't have enough gas to make it to the nearest western union. So i called his command & told them she was stuck there & if i could get someone out there to give her a ride. The guy said her boyfriend is in big trouble for adultry. I was only trying to get her help not get him in trouble. Should i feel bad? His military career is probably going to end now.
2006-11-24 01:55:49 · 12 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
6 kids with 5 women sorry i was upset.
2006-11-24 02:04:24 · update #1
He has a big screen tv, brand new furniture, a new pc & has not paid child support. We have been buying diapers & formula because she was a high risk pregnancy. It is sad he wont give her money now i have to send a western union to get her home. He should pay something.
2006-11-24 02:11:15 · update #2
A- yes you shouldn't have interfered. its your daughters life not yours
Reply- She is stuck at his apartment no food, no money, no gas i refuse to let my child go hungry what parent would. She called me crying. On THANKSGIVING she sat in his apartment with no food. It is sad...
2006-11-24 02:12:57 · update #3
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2006-11-24 02:21:27 · update #4
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2006-11-24 02:22:04 · update #5
Oh no! Don't feel bad at all. You are doing the right thing at the right moment. Anyone who should feel bad should be this stupid guy. I think he rightfully deserves whatever will be the consequence of his action. How can he do this to your daughter? And much more, how can he do this to other women as well? I think it's about time this should be stopped. Otherwise, he will do this thing to 20 or more other women whenever he gets the chance to. Don't feel bad anymore, you did the right thing.
2006-11-24 02:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The military will probably call him on the carpet but I'm not sure they will automatically terminate him. The adultery hasn't been proven yet in a military or civilian court. Who knows what the story on that is? Perhaps there was a divorce. Perhaps it's possible to get the military to have his paycheck, or part of it, sent directly to your daughter as child support. I'm sorry for the mess.
2006-11-24 11:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a sad state of affairs..
Get him in as much trouble with the Army as possible..
Sue him for Child Support..
You daughter should never have had children without the legal
protection of marriage...
2006-11-24 10:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no- you did the right thing. keep telling yourself that. you helped stop other women being treated the same way as your daughter. he got what was coming to him after abusing her like that. he probably treated his other relationships like that too. go you!
2006-11-24 10:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
DON"T feel bad!!
This guy was bound to hurt a lot more women, and you stopped him. You should feel proud!
Feel bad for your daughter, and be there for her--she'll need you more than ever!
2006-11-24 10:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt feel bad. Your daughter comes first. Atleast you are getting her out of there.
2006-11-24 10:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by shartge1986 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he had 5 kids with 6 women???? how is that??
2006-11-24 09:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't feel guilty for him, he was a jerk and knew that he would get in trouble. I really hope your friend is OK.
2006-11-24 09:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't feel bad maybe its karma kicking him in the ***, he's a jerk he deserves everything that's coming to him.
2006-11-24 10:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding. The guy should have his balls chopped off. Who cares about him.
2006-11-24 09:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋