explain what will cost you in your future?
2006-11-24 01:18:28 · 14 answers · asked by voltz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not sure what you mean by cost you in the future, but if you love your wife, you will kiss her @55, break off all contact with the ex, never do this again,and work on being a loving husband in the future...if she'll take you back in the first place.
If you meant what does an affair cost you?
You hurt three people, at the very least. You can't be completely there for either of them. Your wife can no longer trust you, and that means that it will take a long time for you to regain it.
It can cost you your home, your livelihood, your family, your wife.
It erodes at your self respect and reputation.
Don't you remember WHY you and the ex broke up? Why the heck would you go back there if you married someone else?
If you don't love your wife, then leave. Don't say its not that simple. Either you love her or you don't and if you don't, then it is wasting both of your time to remain in this marriage.
2006-11-24 01:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will cost you your wife's trust at the least, maybe even the marriage itself. and maybe the ex isn't going to be there when the wife divorces u, best not to have affairs, and be deceitful, as karma always comes back to you, when u least expect it, u really should get a divorce if u want to have an affair, not fair to your wife at all. nothing good ever comes out of things like this.
2006-11-24 09:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By my wife? With my EX-GIRLFRIED? Oh dear, I would think quite a bit! First and foremost, probably the cost of my relationship with said wife, the cost of her trust, her love, her respect, and then on to the $$$ and sense of it all. Well, the cost of a lawyer, the cost of couseling, if she would actually consent to it. The cost of a divorse if she didn't! The cost of my 1/2 of my pension, half of the house and half of everything else I might have, in addition, the possibility of alimony, child support and my own self esteem, as well as hers. I might even factor in the cost of trust, which is most likely forever gone, no matter what the outcome and no matter that she might forgive me and take me back, she will forever have lost her trust in me, which I would think of as PRICELESS! Hope this helps you in your calculations! Good luck!
2006-11-24 09:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rent 750
cable 64
gas 28
new furniture 150
lawyer retainer 1500
child support 400
master card 150
ae 275
and that is just for the first month
2006-11-24 09:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by matzaballboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will cause the person not to trust you and hold a grudge against you things will never be the same even if you are not doing anything you will be accused of it
2006-11-24 09:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your marriage, I would divorce you immediately! However, there are some weak minded women who would deal with this situation and believe that you love her and just made a mistake. God bless****
2006-11-24 09:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jus consider ur marriage over, she might for give u one day but she will never forget. the trust in ur marriage is gone
2006-11-24 09:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_love_vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be surprised if she acts like everything is fine and do something horrible when you go to sleep.
2006-11-24 10:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face the music and cough up - it's going to cost you...financially at least.
2006-11-24 09:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have no more wife she will never for give u!!
2006-11-24 09:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋