My wife tells me that she has been having a mfm fantasy. So I played along and asked her who was involved in the fantasy. She told me that it involved me and a good friend of mine. He is a pretty hot guy, and very well endowed, which I am not. Should I be concern?
2006-11-24 01:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's normal to have fantasy's. You shouldn't look too much into this. It's normal if this is a person that is always around the both of you. You should only worry if she decided to get involved and make her fantasy come true. You should be happy that your wife is not afraid to tell you what her fantasy's are.
2006-11-24 01:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her fantasy was mff instead of mfm you probably would not think twice about it. Because it involves a friend ... who just so happens to be well endowed .... alarms are going off.
Did you ask exactly what the fantasy entailed? You may still be the star role .. and him only second billing?
2006-11-24 01:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bring another individual into your relationship is a very dangerous practice. So, if you do not want your marriage to last entertain the idea. Surely, you will be getting divorced soon. And why would you want to share your wife with another man anyway. Some things are better left just that, fantasy! Your call, God bless****
2006-11-24 01:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is talk to your friend and see if he is interested and then set it up with your wife and let her fantasy become a reality. You will have hot sex and start her on a sexual path that you will love. There is nothing more beautiful and satisfying than a wife f**king her husband and another guy at the same time. Tell you what if your friend doesn't want to help you out e-mail me and I will.
2006-11-24 01:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, this might nicely be a consumer-friendly woman fantasy. 2d, when you consider which you look insecure she probable does have an allure on your pal. 0.33, if she's conscious he's bigger than you (and could have made an attempt to be certain) she could get exhilaration from nicely endowed adult adult males which could be reason for extra venture...
2016-11-26 19:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a fantasy,,she may have told you but that doesnt mean she actually wants to do anything about it,,for that you will have to ask her but,,the majority of fantasies cannot be controlled,,they are something our subconscious finds attractive whether we like it or not,,it may just be something she keeps for herself but wouldnt want to act on and that is fine,,we all have them,,some we share some we dont,,it has to be said,,if we did all that our subconscious told us would be a good idea,odds on we would not find them so attractive after all.
2006-11-24 01:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it remains in the realm of fantasy, that's OK, but what if she wants to act on it?
That is a question you need to square in your own mind
2006-11-24 01:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you need to have a discussion with her, if she knows about his size, that might be causing fantasy, three ways for married couples not a good idea, can cause problems in long run
2006-11-24 01:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a fantasy. not a big thing. I take it she likes to be the center of attention? Just curious.
2006-11-24 01:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should be concerned the bible says if a man looks at a woman in that manner (sexually) he has already committed adultery in his heart. So she shouldn't even be fantasizing about anyone but you! I also agree w/ Waterboy.
2006-11-24 01:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋