Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now the only thing is we have nothing to talk about anymore?? Like online we don't know what to say to each other?? Its as if we've covered everything?? Does that mean we're not right for each other?? I love him to death.. Please guide me.
2006-11-24 02:10:44 · 12 answers · asked by Amal-Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this is an internet boyfriend, then yes, your have intenet yoruselves out. Without the physical connection, typing gets boring after a while.
Find someone that you can touch and kiss
Good luck
2006-11-24 02:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the excitement is gone. It was probably lust, not love, or infatuation. We can confuse ourselves into thinking it is love.
Try to ask your b/f, what he is feeling? See if he has lost that loving feeling for you. If he has , then just move on. Don't let this bring you down. You have so much life left to live. All of us have had heart break at one time or another.
Don't let a guy's love make you feel terrible. Love should bring happiness. Try talking about other things that interest him. If you want to keep him. Maybe always talking about love bothers him.
Get involved in sports or games he likes. Keep the conversation real and fun. That should help.
2006-11-24 10:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world do you love about him, if you can't communicate? Is it the sexual relationship---because that isn't love. it's just a part of the whole thing. I guarantee you, if you find you have nothing to say to each other NOW, then you'll for SURE be like those older couples I see in the restaurants, sitting there eating, not saying a word to each other and looking MISERABLE! I'd say that your partner should be your best friend---and when did you have nothing to say to your bf?
2006-11-24 10:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you are both not ment for each other... If you both feel like you have uncovered everything about each other and hve nothing to say ne more then i would say youre not ment to be, but if you've uncovered everything about each other and still have so much to talk about then you are ment to be!! Thats life, and some time what you believe to be love could infact be infactuation, use your judgement, only you can tell how you feel, ask him how he feels, that trhe only way to find out for sure!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-24 10:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and do new things together. Go ice skating, take a pottery class, do new things, this will be a good jumpstart to your relationship. You will be able to learn new things about each other and have a good time. Just because you guys are at a standstill doesn't mean your relationship is over, you just need to reinvigorate things! Good luck!
2006-11-24 10:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by kmputman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend only talk online? Is it a long distance relationship?If you have nothing to say to each other, why would you still be in love with him?
2006-11-24 10:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is boring ! Maybe intellectually you are incompatible with each other because as you have said you have nothing to discuss or talk about anymore. there are millions of things to talk about under the sun. ask questions and be the first to initiate a topic of interests which he likes to talk about. Joke with each other to brighten your day. Humour is a spice of life. keep the conversation rolling if you want to keep him.
2006-11-24 10:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you talking on the net when you have been together 2 years? Usually relationships start with some net use-then go face to face or on the phone. I guess I don't get it.
2006-11-24 10:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of like the honeymoon is over. Now you live your life together and cater to one another, growing in love.
2006-11-24 10:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by bootsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to be doing more with each other than chatting on line ..... give yourselves something to talk about.
2006-11-24 10:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋