Yesterday my husband , my daughter and I ate Thanksgiving dinner with my Husbands family. During dinner both of my sister's in law's boyfriends as well as one of my brothers in law hit on me. Needless to say I now don't want to eat Christmas Dinner there. How do I get my husband to change our plans without giving him some idea that I am now uncomfortable with the males in his family?
2006-11-24 03:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why involve your husband? Handle it yourself. Tell these guys that you are not interested in adultery and that if you change your mind you will let them know, and until that time arrives please keep your come-ons to yourself. That tells them in no uncertain terms that you don't want their attention. If they persist, then call them out on it at the dinner table. Things will change pretty quick right then and there.
2006-11-24 03:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your family? Maybe you can go see them? As far as getting out of it, I think you should confront him now about the issues at hand! Even if he does get really angry! He will get over it. Confront the other males together regarding how uncomfortable you felt,,,,,,that is if your husband can keep his cool. Stuff like that left unattended to, and brushed under the mat have a way of getting you in trouble in the long run, and could cost you your marriage.When you are married there is to be no secrets is there?
2006-11-24 03:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You flow an afternoon previous due?!? What, she has to attend around so which you could take place for an entire DAY?! Are you nuts?! sure, you ought to tell her which you have had a transformation in plans. this is purely user-friendly courtesy (which, granted, is quite uncommon at present). It facilitates her a guess to alter her plans, as a replace of questioning if/once you could desire to deign to take place..
2016-10-17 11:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be very straightforward and matter-of-fact. Tell him exactly what you told us. That you were hit on by his male relatives, and you fill uncomfortable being around them. Why can't you eat Christmas dinner with your parents or other relatives???
2006-11-24 03:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have it both ways. Either tell him and risk a family implosion. Or keep it to yourself for the sake of peace and just go and keep a stiff upper lip if it happens again.
2006-11-24 03:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by john c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. He should be quite willing to change the plans for christmas.
2006-11-24 03:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, do not deal with your husband and cause a ruckess,deal with who is causing you to be uncomfortable. Let them know that you are not interested. Then all will be good
2006-11-24 03:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by seaking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way of dealing with it is telling him the truth, he is your partner and U should show him who is his enemy and who is his friend!! plz help him in this and second of all men like their wives to be with their family, he be probably upset with the idea that U don't like his family , just tell him the truth
2006-11-24 03:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your husband...
2006-11-24 03:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.
2006-11-24 03:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋