He doesn't like to go anywhere especially if he has to talk to anyone.I go most places alone or with one of my grown children.When the kids come over, sometimes he'll say hello then go hide in his computer room.Is there something I can do to help him be more outgoing.
2006-11-24 13:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by Granny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people prefer to be alone.
Try sending him a daily email. Have the kids do the same. Maybe he'll answer!
2006-11-24 13:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man with grown children and a wife who has spent many years along with with those children disrespecting or resenting my role. Many men feel like that they are reserved to being Dad or the Old man and they don't like it but are not sure what to do about it. They usually lack motivation to do more. Usually they are just tired of trying anything. Maybe, it would be a good idea for everyone to jump up and do whatever he suggests the next time. Remember, men are sensitive enough to know when and why people are doing things with them too. Men usually like the reap what you sow ideology. He is letting you reap what he thinks you have sowed, his unimportance regarding anything except money or responsible behavior of course.
Reserved sometimes is easier than trying to convince others that how you feel about things or what you find important is right or fun. Then it just becomes habit.
2006-11-24 21:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not called reserved that's called unfriendly, disassociated, anyone with a, or with feelings like this, are feelings like the uni bomber really, if you remember? he was the same unfriendly frame of mind. Hello today and bomb you tomorrow.
I wouldn't say any names, this would be assuming so. This is what I'm going to go. I'm goin to repeat what was said. O.K if this doesn't work nothing isn't
A famous newspaper columnist said this. She tuned off the phones on Saturday, told her friends no calls on Saturdays. They both take showers and take leisurely baths together and then luxuriate in the bed while watching porno or x rated movies and fascinating themselves with each other all day.
2006-11-24 21:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and tell him that he is like everyone else and that noone will think bad of him he talks to them.
They just need confidence. Plan more picnics and dinners.
But the fact that he loves you is what is important.
Good Luck
2006-11-24 21:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Zahra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have anxiety disorder.
2006-11-24 22:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ann_swer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to smoke a joint
2006-11-24 21:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by steven d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋