the divorce rate in countries that marry 4 love is more than 50%compared to countries that have arranged marriages which is less than 10%.
2006-11-24 22:46:56 · 16 answers · asked by the_one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't agree on this one, the people doing that has no selfsteam
:> peace
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2006-11-28 17:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love marriages are done by those that believe that the old tradition of arranged marriage is not a good tradition. Arranged marriages are carefully planned to make sure that the couple will be compatible. Love marriages are sometimes founded on love, and sometimes on hormones and rebellion. The ones who will go into a love marriage often have left behind other traditions as well. They will not try to stay and work things out, the thought of being stuck in a bad marriage is unthinkable. They may never stop to think that a marriage can be fixed if the couple tries. Also, there is a lot of influence from the West. These days everyone wants to be like the British or the Americans. Most marriages in those countries will fail. Don't misunderstand me. I am not saying that a couple should stay together is one is a cheater and maybe also violent. I am saying that many are willing to jump ship for any small reason.
2016-03-29 08:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people that you are talking about the women that are sent to marry a man they don't know are slaves in the house hold, yes they learn to love the man and have kids and love the kids, they are so immersed in the relationship that they feel they have no other options. The divorce rate in the US is high because women have more options more earning power and more ways of taking care of them selves if they have to get out of a bad marriage. Other countries do not have the safety nets that the US provides.
2006-11-24 23:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by cctucker75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN arranged marriages you have not expectations you go with your eyes open in the sense that you know you will have to work really hard to make the marriage work.And the boy choosen is not only on his merits but also for the type of family he comes from.
IN Love marriages you have great expectations as you feel you know the person you are getting married too.Well you don't know a person well till you have lived with them & even if you have been living together ,with marriage,you take a lot of things for granted .People expect the same romance after marriage that they had before marriage,but a lot of time the reality of the day to day living gets in the way & the couples find it difficult to cope & feel that their partner has changed after marriage.......
2006-11-24 22:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages are common only among traditional and religious communities. Love marriages in highly religious communities that frown on divorce also have very low divorce rates.
Its the community, not whether the marriage was 'love' or 'arranged'.
2006-11-25 17:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the reason that marriage by arrangement is done by matured parents who had already learned the fitpalls of family life. Love sometimes changes through the years of a person. Love that is erotic is not trusted.
2006-11-24 22:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by wilma m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure that this is correct. Also in arranged marriages they stay together because they have to or feel they have to for fear of family/religious criticism or worse. Just becuase they are together & are not divorced it does not mean they are happy
2006-11-24 22:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by missmillyb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That society does not tolerate divorce. They know going into the marriage that it is going to be hard, and they don't give up because of every little bump.
2006-11-24 23:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages are usually done in 3rd world nations where
the woman has few options & choices...
Divorce is not an option....She must take the abuse....
2006-11-24 23:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both parties are mentally flexible in arranged marriage as they are strangers.
2006-11-24 23:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, usually I wouldn't touch subjects like this, but this one is easy. Traditions in different cultures dictate who marries who. And that's it. If you can't get to choose who YOU marry, and it is not based on LOVE nor FRIENDSHIP, then why u think you have a choice, u better make it work. And even if it's not working, we will never know. They will smile in public and have WW-III behind closed door. Plus, in those cultures, a woman considers it a DUTY to please her husband whether she likes it or not. And more times than not, she will like it, comes back to what I said first, TRADITION and CULTURE !
2006-11-24 22:55:41 · answer #11 · answered by garfieldgordon69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋