I've started crying after sex?

Question

ive been married for almost 2 years and it all started about 4 months ago I'm male and Ive tried to hide it but its become impossible my wife is started to see me as something less manly and now im having trouble getting an errection..please help

Answer 1

I think thats damn sexy. It means your dropping the defense system, your opening up to your wife... Its beautiful and amazing!

I did that a few times, after orgasming with my husband, its just a realise from all the pain you carried and blocked up in your mind. Dont worry its beautiful. I wish my man did that!

Answer 2

Go for a trip. May be a beach or a river front (a calm place where you r with nature) Then talk to each other about it. You both must understand that crying is not your probelm. Your problem is being overconscious about it.

Trouble in errection is caused mainly by thinking something else during sex. Or thinking about failure (generally any thing negative).

Also you wife has to consider the pleasure you have given her is last two years. It shows that you are man. This is just a phase that you need to face. And a life partner has to be there with you. It is her duty.

I am sure a good time spent away from your daily life and tensions will serve the purpose.

If it doesnt yeild results, you can opt for Psychological treatment. There are good therapies available.

And most important thing: Dont doubt youself !

Best luck !

Answer 3

It just means that you love your wife immensely and you are shedding tears of joy. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Quite natural actually. It's an intimate and private sharing between you two. A meaningful compliment to your wife. It's like telling her that you are bonded to her beyond what mere words could ever say. It also shows that you are a passionate and sensitive person.
One of the reasons that males die earlier than females is because they don't, or won't, express their emotions. Keeping feelings bottled up inside is self destructive. So what you are expressing is very therapeutic and cleans out the negativity from your central nervous system. Hope your wife can be more understanding about this. There is no reason for ridicule. Your wife is luckier than she can ever imagine.

Answer 4

Crying after sex is normal, sex brings out all kinds of emotions. The reason you are having trouble getting an erection is because you are thinking about the crying after sex, which is probably embarrassing to you, even though it shouldn't be. The sooner you get over the fact that you think something so normal is embarrassing the erection problem will go away. It's a mental thing. Good luck, God Bless.

Answer 5

Sometimes it just happens.

I don't know if anything has changed in your life, but chances are this will pass.

Your wife is probably concerned - but I doubt she thinks you are less of a man.

Answer 6

Go to a medical Doctor and have yourself checked out. This is most likely a medical problem.

Answer 7

Sex is a big release. Especially when it's passionate. You could tell your wife what's in your head to make you cry. (She might be suspecting you're feeling guilty about an affair...) and you both can talk to your doctor about it.

Answer 8

the best advice i can give you is go see a doctor and maybe the a psychiatrist and try to find out what it is that is making you sooo emotional

Answer 9

i am sorry for u ,You should bulid your confidence when you make love,second you may try Viagra

Answer 10

talk to her about it. see a doctor maybe they can help you