My husband goes through these phases that last a couple of months at a time where no matter what I say, he snaps at me. Then for a couple of months I'm the "greatest wife in the world". Today while running erands together we needed to make a left U-turn on a packed road at rush hour. The left turn lane was way backed up. I pointed to the right hand turn lane,which was empty, and at a light for easy turning and said "why don't you turn right and then come back through the light?" He snapped back "because the lane is all backed up, SWEETHART!" I took a little breath and replied that I knew the LEFT lane was backed up, that's why I told you to turn RIGHT and then easily come back through the light. He does this constantly. I'm at the point where I am either going to quit talking altogether or get snappy back. I'm afraid to go into ***** mode as there may be no return! Does this happen to anyone else? How do you handle it without becoming a crappy person, too?
2006-11-21
19:58:16
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