My boyfriend blows his nose , I am assuming into his hands, in the shower. It grosses me out. Not that I would break up with him because of it, but I am just wondering at what point men get so obviously comfortable around a woman to do gross stuff like that. geez. i guess his days of trying to impress me are over!
2006-11-21 19:11:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It gets worse, trust me.
2006-11-21 19:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by HarleeNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm totally with you. I didn't even want to bring the subject up, but now that you have, I've made my partner read your question. So hopefully that's something that might stop soon.
Isn't it horrible? I think it's very important to maintain some modesty when two people share their lives, and share a house; you have to have space and distance and modesty about this sort of stuff, otherwise there is absolutely zero glamour left in life and we all might as well walk around wearing old tracksuits all the time. There are lots of things I don't want to know about my partner - like bathroom habits. I just don't want to know. I believe in the closed-door mentality. It keeps a bit of mystery and modesty in a cramped living space that would otherwise become intolerable.
Thanks for raising the issue.
2006-11-21 19:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly grosses you out about that? The noise? How is that different from blowing your nose in a kleenex? Or is it the thought of bugers going down the shower drain. Is that what grosses you out? Who really cares what is in the drain! Where do you think your menstrual blood and fecal waste go? Silliness, you need to get over that, miss.
2006-11-21 19:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by KT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different, some guys "become themselves" very quickly others take longer. I feel that a guy should respect their partners opinions about these things though. But I dont think a guy should try to impress his girl friend all the time, its just too much work. They should try to impress their girl friend regularly though.
2006-11-21 19:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH is that not the nastest thing they do ever! I know I know!!! I have polled all of my male friends; Half of them do that and think they are slick; as if we would never find out or didnt know. Who do they think gets a tissue and cleans out that mess?
Half of them sleep holding onto their handles too. Wait until he starts poke'n you in the back in the middle of the night with a "honey, are you awake?"
They think they are so unique.
The best is, check his side of the bed, under the mattress or boxspring... (or night stand table [they all have a spot they pick]) he'll wipe his boogies (when he picks his nose) under there rather then get up to get a tissue. yup, a whole collection, of dryed up ones..just for you to find. He wipes it on something, where ever he can reach, rather then get out of bed, i can assure you.
LOL!!
Dirty things arent they? LOL!
I'm feel'n for ya....
Yvette :)
2006-11-21 19:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in the bathe for crying out loud, so the water will wash his hands off. that's unlike he's doing it next to you once you're in the bathe too. they're already being cleansed besides. possibly for this reason some men do not thoughts peeing in the bathe on a similar time as others do not, i does not say he has stopped attempting to electrify you. i could look at this as a stable ingredient. he's comfortable adequate to try this without consistently having to positioned on a activity face. How long could you assume a guy to positioned on his activity face besides earlier he can extremely be himself lower back? in case you're strolling down the aisle and nonetheless waiting for that, then you relatively're basically out for his act and not his real self. I as quickly as dated a woman who had port wine ailment (dark pink scar on her face), and he or she exchange into in the habit of masking it up with makeup daily. as quickly as her and that i've got been given fantastically comfortable, I informed her that there exchange into no prefer for her to positioned on that makeup daily if it exchange into only going to be her and that i (of direction she'd nonetheless persist with it if she exchange into going out, yet that modify into her selection). next time you're changing your pad or tampon, contemplate whether your squeeze could be grossed out over that, even nevertheless menstruation and nostril blowing are info of life.
2016-10-22 13:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabye he doesn't know it grosses you out . or mabye he is comfortable with you, he's a man that's why
they are all pretty gross sometime
If you live together you need to be comfortable with each other. Sometimes you will bug each other. You need to communicate.
2006-11-21 19:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by mary j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where should he blow his nose then? out side the shower in a rag or kleenex?IT STILL SOUNDS GROSS.I am a nurse and a person needs to blow their nose. SEEMS to me you want a perfict person. SORRY THEY DONT EXIST.
2006-11-21 19:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I did that this morning... The bathroom is right beside my friend's hot little nineten year old sister's room..... I never even thought twice about it....
I guess maybe it is to be comfortable with ones self.
2006-11-21 19:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by jonas_tripps_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that.
At least he doesn't poop in the shower... hopefully.
2006-11-21 19:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋