I'm 18 and i've been sleeping with a 37 year old married man ...he's sexy,smart and very wealthy...I want him to get a divorce but he doesn't want one because he's worried he'll have to pay TONS of money for child support and alimony,Even if he did he'd still have tons of money ....do you think he really wants to divorce her? Do you think i should tell his wife that we've been sleeping together???( i think i should) How should i tell her??? and if things don't work out for us is there a way i way i can sue him for emotional distress and get some of his money???or try to get myself pregnant??? since we've been together for 3 years i think i deserve something out of this
2006-11-21 20:18:16 · 22 answers · asked by @ubreY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Thats all i can even think of to say....
Maybe Contact Jerry Springer?
2006-11-21 20:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you've been playing hide the salami with a married man since you were 15 (which by the way he could still go to jail for even if you are legal now) and he hasn't left his wife yet, and you're thinking about getting pregnant?? Why would you want to bring a child into this mess you are currently calling a life? DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES GET PREGNANT !!!! Only responsible, mature people should have children, people who want to bring a child into a loving home. If this wonderful, smart, sexy, and wealthy man won't divorce his wife because he doesn't want to pay alimony or child support, what makes you think he'll do anything more for you and your child ?? I wasn't going to answer this question because personally it disgusts me, but when i thought of what you said about getting pregnant to "trap" him ( and yes that is exactly what it would be) just to get money out of him, it really made me physically ill. A child does not ask to be born, less to a gold digger who only had them to get money from his Father... Please think twice.
2006-11-22 04:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Michele A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why tell the wife? you knew what you were getting into when you started having an affair with her husband. all that is going to do is mess up your good thing and he is going to be resentful. he will never get with you after that. baby or no baby that is not going to make him leave his wife if he doesn't really want to. no you can't sue him for emotional distress, he hasn't mislead you. you knew the situation. you sound stupid, desperate, and are coming off like an insane immature tramp . time to grow up,be a real woman and get your own man. you're getting what you deserve right now: nothing.
2006-11-22 04:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by sweettee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UMMM! Youve been with him for 3 years and youre 18 that makes him a molester. No he doesn't want to divorce his wife he wants the young meat on the side youre the mash potatoes to his steak. Honey you are in a bad situation and need to just walk away now before you really get screwed, and I dont mean in the good way!
2006-11-22 04:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by ha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should do all those things, tell the wife, get pregnant, sue him for emotional distress and hopefully you'll get some money.
2006-11-22 04:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sleeping with his wife! She said that she knows all of this and has started Divorce proceedings, Citing you as Corespondant! She is assured og getting 80% of his wealth and we are planning to live in the Caribbean!
2006-11-22 04:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a material ***** that is going out with someone that could've been her dad... what's the matter with u? aren't any boys your age that u think u could fall for? U can sue him anyway since u're claiming that u were with him since u were 15, that's even more sick.
2006-11-22 04:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you tell he is making an excuse? come on... there are many young men who have what you are looking for..perhaps , except wealthy...
remember this; easy come and easy go.. money is not everything. there are more than money... if that is what you think, good luck ... you are taking a hard way to figure out what is really life is...
2006-11-22 04:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're being honest (stranger things have happened), then you should go to the police. If you've been having sex with this man for 3 years, that's statutory rape. I don't know what suing him would accomplish except maybe to pay for any counseling you would need.
2006-11-22 04:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve nothing out of this hes married, that means he loves her,your just a lay...Should get that through your head,and if you want to tell her go for it ,your the one that will lose everything....
2006-11-22 05:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, true you can sue him, but why??? You put yourself in that position... You knew he was married and now you want to hurt his wife and kids just to satisfy your needs...Just move on and leave him alone...
2006-11-22 04:52:05 · answer #11 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋