Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2006

so much. Expecially those first person shooters. dont they get tired of it ever???

2006-11-21 07:01:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter has two children by this man and he has two more by two other women. After two years of preparation, my money, he leaves her at the altar.

2006-11-21 06:57:43 · 35 answers · asked by LOLO W 3

I want to be me but i can't let my past run my life.

2006-11-21 06:52:56 · 6 answers · asked by melony f 1

Dating a guy for 6 months and having a really good time, enjoy his company; planning our vacation together for next year, then all of the sudden says he loves me and wants to get married and if I don't want the same it's over. Have not spoken for a few days. I like him and miss him, but is this crazy? Why not wait to see what happens since the relationship is so new. What was the right thing to do?

2006-11-21 06:50:07 · 37 answers · asked by nancy 1

Do Men watch Porn and look at dirty Magazines cause they are no longer sexually attracted to their wives? Please serious answers only

2006-11-21 06:49:47 · 41 answers · asked by Tara 5

We all know really what we need to do and verify it here but why do we still live as we were and don't follow through?

2006-11-21 06:43:21 · 14 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3

2006-11-21 06:41:33 · 15 answers · asked by Randy E 1

I have married to someone who is elder than me. Due to this I could not tell this to my parents. Off course I can't tell this to them for some reason which I can not disclose. Now, my wife (socially unknown) is telling me to marry again, but I know she is not uttering these from her heart. I know, she is observing my loyalty. At the same time, when my parents would pressurise me and I would be compelled to marry twice, it would be a serious dilemma. Hope u pepole understand my point. Needless to say, we love each other very much, and I am thinking about this heartbreaking options for the sake of society. Please help.

2006-11-21 06:40:19 · 16 answers · asked by computersir 1

2006-11-21 06:39:31 · 22 answers · asked by littlefun42 1

2006-11-21 06:35:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My significant spent 10,000 dollars on his divorce, it was finally final in October after she fought it for a year. He only filed because she cheated so many times with so many people including relatives and his so called friends. She thought he would never leave for good because he had left 2x before and came back. Now she keeps dragging him back to court. If he won't talk to her on the phone she will tell their 14 year old daughter to tell him that he can talk to her on the phone or talk to her in court. We have custody of the oldest and she has the 3 youngest. She is constantly dragging him in and out of court just to cost him more money and more grief. If she can't have him she don't want anyone to have him. When will all of this madness stop? He hates her and she knows that. She has a boyfriend so why can't she just leave us alone?

2006-11-21 06:32:20 · 17 answers · asked by bamagirl 1

Me and my husband is living together for 7 years without any kid and he is faithful to me by that time then. I was offered a job and work in another country, was husbandt was left and I heard from friends and relatives that he has an affair.

When I went home over the summer, I tried to confront him and he said that it is just a fling and its over. Now me and my husband left our country and move to a new place where work awaits me...

I discover one time that he sent e-mail to the woman, telling her how much he love her... I notice too that there are anonymous call and later found out that he sent money to the woman. When I tried to confront him this time, he told me that he was sending money as an obligation because the woman is pregnant and she pitied the woman because she has no job...

Tell me what to do? Should I leave me husband? He is asking for another chance? Do you think he is worth it?

CONFUSED

2006-11-21 06:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by Rain 1

me and my wife dont even live together now. what can i do to get that fire back? that dont cost me a fortune. and remeber we live in a small town so there is not much for us to do! Help!!!!

2006-11-21 06:29:56 · 17 answers · asked by litchmob199725 2

2006-11-21 06:23:54 · 20 answers · asked by Ashish G 1

i have been seeing someone now for about 5 months we have been getting on until i recieve a phone call from a woman saying she is his wife of 5yrs and they have kids together. he denies it and says it is one of his old mates. I know he was married but he told me he has been divorced for about 12months. i am trying to find out if he is divorced as this is not the type relationship i want if he is? what sites can i go on tofind this out?

2006-11-21 06:23:00 · 6 answers · asked by SARAH H 1

We have been married for 11 years and this has been an ongoing problem. They are nasty and bitter. I feel my children deserve to know their grandparents. I only have my mother and my husband doesn't seem to view this as "enough family" to be with during the holidays. Every holiday for me has been ruined by nasty or hurtful comments or just plain dirty looks and not speaking to me. They have never approved of me because I'm older than my husband and was divorced. I have tried for years to be cordial, but I'm so tired of trying. I feel down and depressed during the holidays, instead of joyful and peaceful. Do I expect too much? My in-laws helped break up my husbands brother's marraige, and so would love to break up mine. I'm scared that they are succeeding. My children are beginning to pick up on the "bad vibes" and that's not right. I know it is a common problem, but how do some of you handle this negativity from family memberes?
Thanks

2006-11-21 06:15:45 · 39 answers · asked by Shelley P 1

My Fiance' is in a rock band. He has a passion for music that he has had since he was a child & I am supporting him in pursuing his dream. He is not making ANY money right now & is on the road more than not. What should I be asking of him? I work full-time making 40K/year & pt making 10K/year...I am pulling my weight above & beyond. He is using his 401K money from his previous job to support himself/us while he is trying to make it. Any thoughts? He has alot of responsibility at home including a home that we rent & a child from a prior relationship.

2006-11-21 06:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2

I’ve been married a year last Sep. And sex with my wife has dropped drastically in that year. I’ve read articles and a variety of internet blogs and still no sure answer. We have a good marriage and everything other than sex is balanced fairly well. But for some reason she doesn’t have the sexually desires she used to before we married. Before we married it was 2-3 times a week and she wanted it. She is 22 and I am 29 and according to her I was her first. Though I always understood you would KNOW when/if you had sex with a female virgin. I was not so sure. With that said, I on the other hand, had a hand full of sexual partners prior to being with her sexually (none virgins). Each of those experiences the female come on to me or initiated the sexual encounter as often or more than I did. Now if I don’t initiate it, it doesn’t happen. She says it would get dry and hurt after a few minutes so we got KY, which helped, still no increase. Then we talked some more about it.

2006-11-21 06:13:18 · 34 answers · asked by Worried 1

I still really love him and we still talk and im not sure what to think ya know that first true love apparently everybody has well he was it and i dont know if i can get over him without him being mad at me. I like him as a friend but more and we have decided just to be friends but if i get over him will that break us apart.

2006-11-21 06:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by Killashandra N 1

I still really love him and we still talk and im not sure what to think ya know that first true love apparently everybody has well he was it and i dont know if i can get over him without him being mad at me. I like him as a friend but more and we have decided just to be friends but if i get over him will that break us apart.

2006-11-21 06:12:12 · 8 answers · asked by Killashandra N 1

who claimed he was busy and couldnt hang out, only to find that he had other plans that he didnt want you to know about (not cheating)?????

2006-11-21 06:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

from your marriage exprience. what cause marriage to be more excited and live longer, opposite personalities or similar personalities?

2006-11-21 06:06:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dads getting re married and my i cant stand my step sisters what should i do to relive the stress.

2006-11-21 06:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by Killashandra N 1

it's not necessary that i believe in zodica signs, but i just want to know from real people exprience.

2006-11-21 06:04:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

its mine and my husbands frst anniversary. hes been in korea because of the army and he comes home 2 days after our anniversary. im not good at gift ideas. hes not a big sports fan and currently doesnt have any real hobbies. for the last year hes been in korea so he hasnt had time to really have hobbies or strong interest other then work.any ideas would be greatly appreciated!!

2006-11-21 06:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by Brooklyn 1

2006-11-21 05:58:45 · 19 answers · asked by lovebug 2

I am 32 years old, I married a wonderful girl 7 years ago. I have 2 incredible kids. I get along fine with my wife, she is beautiful and kind. The issue is that there has NEVER been a good sex life. I could even dare to say that there is absolutely NO sex life. Its like if I'm living with my best friend. We've tried counseling, but she just isn't interested. She doesn't have any physical problems or previous bad experiences. She just doesn't seem to like sex at all, and she doesn't want to try anything. When she "lets" me have sex, she doesn't participate at all, and I end up feeling guilty because she's doing something she doesn't really want to. The really bad thing is that I don't look forward to being intimate with her anymore. I have real trouble getting turned on by her, and to make things worse she insists on having a third child. What can I do?

2006-11-21 05:57:15 · 37 answers · asked by Carmina 1

If a married man cheats with an unmarried woman, isn't it moreso adultery on his part and not hers? He's married and she's not, so he's the one who really commited adultery right?

2006-11-21 05:57:10 · 37 answers · asked by melcar12345 4

and why does this pace slow down when couples begin to have children...
is there anyone whose sex pace is the same as after kids?

2006-11-21 05:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 yrs., but we keep running into the same problems without any resolution. We have had many resolved issues, but when it comes to family and our future, the arguements turn very heated. He doesn't seem to complain about anything with me, but I have problems with his family and the fact that he hasn't proposed and refuses to talk about it. For example, if his family wants him to do something, he drops plans with me. (I am rarely included in any family gatherings). He doesn't want to upset them, but doesn't seem to mind upsetting me. His family lives 30 miles away and we just live a block within each other. He says he spends more time with me, so when they want him to spend time with them, it is justified.
Then there comes the issue of marriage. After three years, you should at least be able to have a conversation about this topic, right? Am I just spinning my wheels or can we come to some sort of agreement of these issues?

2006-11-21 05:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by stacey h 3