I make an offer to my exgirl to be back together but I told her she needs to change should I keep up my offer?

Answer 1

yes u should

Answer 2

Your an A** what gives you the right to make ANYONE CHANGE? If I were her I would laugh in your face and tell you to stick it up your ***. We are all individual people and the things that we do are all a part of our personality's and for you to THINK that you have ANY right to make someone change to be with you is just ignorance. What makes you think that the problem is her from the question it sounds like it is YOU that needs to change this male chovanistic attitude that you have... I hope that she drops you like a piece of SH**

Answer 3

Nope. You can't force people to change. Even if she seems 'changed' for now, she's not. She'll still be the same person you dated before...her true colors will start surfacing shortly after you start re-dating her.

I suggest you find someone else and start fresh.

Let me point out one thing: The fact that you had to ask this question, means that you are concerned that by proceeding with the relationship you will be making a mistake. You need to listen to your gut instinct. If your gut is telling you that this is not going to bode well, then don't do it.

Answer 4

There is not enough details about what you want to change about her. However, realize that some things are part of someone's personality. If it's meant to be, the necessary changes from both of you will be made, if not, move on to someone more compatible. This will save you and her a lot of heartache.

Answer 5

Well it depends on your offer, if you feel deep inside that your offer will better your relationship, then stick to , cause that is the only way she know you are serious about your offer. Especially if you want your relationship to change for the good.

Answer 6

Find out what went wrong with yous, she needs to listen to you on what you believe went wrong and you also need to listen to her side of the story. Than yous need to comparmise and try your best to own up to these changes, if yous really want this to work than it will, but if it just seems like all yous do is try to make things work out the way yous want and it doesnt than its just more work than anything else, and love shouldnt be that way. Yous than need to just let go of one another and face that its not going to work. If the other person is willing to change than thats great. But its going to be a lot of work for someone to change, and they are going to have to really want to themselves and realize that they are doing somthing wrong. But I believe its worth trying, but if there are not going to be any changes between the both of yous, than theres no point of trying to get on that rollercoaster again, we all know how its going to end.

Answer 7

If you really love her accept her as a whole. You cannot change people. Why do you want her back if you have found faults in her you do not like?

Answer 8

that depends on if you still want to be with her or not. if you do and she agrees then go for it but if she doesnt put forth the effort to make the changes then yyou should get out as soon as possible.

Answer 9

if you want her...and a relationship is about give and take. It takes both people to make it work. Not just one changing.

Answer 10

if she willing to make the changes OK. and if u love her that much to take her back . i think u should keep ur offer. goo luck

Answer 11

Yes because if that change will better the relationship then stick to your guns.


*Never back down from anyone*