I'm willing to lay all my cards out on the table with her and see how we can work it out. But it seems that we have to much dert between us that she don't know how to forgive and forget and start off new. Me I'm willing to do that so we can ease the pain between us. To me I feel me and her don't think the same as to work things out.I try to speak calm to her but It seems that shes in so much rage, she don't know how to focus on the situation on hand. Thats why we are seprated now becuase I don't know how to deal with her. Lately, shes been showing up with hickes and doing some sort of scam to hurt me in any way. I just don't know why shes thinks thats going to make anything better. I've done my part as to be with an other but I don't throw it in her face like how she does with me.Tonight I talked to her asking why she does that. and she stated to pour her hart out and keep pointing the finger at me like everything is my falt.Do you think I can work it out or do you think it's no use?
2006-11-21 17:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she has a problem with temptation.. I think the hickey's are a dead give away! My ex played that on me too.. Tell i wise up and divorced her.. Now that i have a g/f look who's wanting me back! ''That's right, my ex'' Sorry i don't ever care to play that song or dance again, I cant be more happier or stress free..
I believe and you know what you need to do too.. other wise
invest on a John Travolta suit and dance to the same song!
You might also want to tell Tonia C to have herself clone! so she can go F#(+ herself...
2006-11-21 18:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by FLEXizme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if a relationship has been battered and bruised to the point where one or both of the parties involved can no longer be reasonable and has so much anger that there is no solution, you may have to call it quits.. It sounds like she is having a guy on the side, so if thats the case it really could be a lost cause. Its very difficult to do, and it will hurt, but being in this situation with her is worse. A woman that is that angry can also try to get you financially, or she could try something to really hurt you. Protect yourself from her anger.
2006-11-21 18:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated on her and she knows it, then sorry Honey, everything IS your fault. There is NO excuse for putting your p***** into another woman (even in your mind) especially if you are married! It sounds as if she really loved you since she is obviously hurt so badly. If she didn't, then it would not hurt her so much. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. It will take time, and you will have to be open about whatever it is that made you cheat. IF it was immaturity on your part, then decide what kind of man you want to be and act accordingly. If you can't talk to her, you might have to call it quits. I don't agree with her attempts to get back at you but perhaps you are oblivious to how much you hurt her and that is the only way she can show you??? I hope that there aren't any kids involved. They suffer more than you will ever know....
2006-11-21 18:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Denise L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Some things are blown in life, with no way of salvaging them. Lost love remains so, and one must accept it and move on.
2. Learn from the mistakes in this one, so that you do not carry them into your next major committment with a woman.
3. The only consoling thing I can say, is that if you two are truly meant to be together, nothing will prevent it. But for now, back off. The Lady views you with disdain.
Good Luck and Warm Regards.
2006-11-21 17:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by mitch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, excellent and extremely last, you should maintain in mind that God Loves you, and needs the mind-blowing for you. How a lot does He love you? a lot that He despatched His purely Son to die on a flow, in price on your sin and the sin of the international. God will under no circumstances do something to damage you or each person else. God is Love. With this in concepts, he will mend your courting, if that's what you want Him to do. in case you want His will on your life, (that's continually the proper) then you actually will ask Him for His will to be finished on your life. you have to be careful what you ask for, you'll likely get it. in case you comprehend for particular that the proper element for you and your ex bf should be to be again jointly, ask the Lord for that, and he will provide it to you. God needs you to be at liberty. if you're actually not satisfied, you're literally not an outstanding testimony to this Love and beauty. The time period, "unhappy Christian" is totally an oxymoron. If I were you i ought to seek for God's will in all issues. I promise you, he will under no circumstances enable you to down. God Bless.
2016-10-16 10:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if she;s not the forgive and forget type , then this means that you are willing to carry the burden of guilt on ur shoulders for both of you..?
would you really want to be blamed for all faults in the realtionship?
or was she right about her rage?
a broken raged woman is the hardest to mend but with her willingness all can work..
my advice is to ask urself all that and then ask her if she;s willing to work things out or if she;s so over u.
good luck u need it
2006-11-21 18:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you tried and are still trying to make it better. Coming from a woman, we are just mean and spitful. We dont want to hear what you have to say. I am sorry you have been hurt. I hope that everything turns out ok but remember that women just want to make things worse sometimes. Oh and women always will lay blame on anyone but themselves. Sorry, just letting you know. I am married to a wonderful man that drives me nuts. I dont listen to him enough and blame he for a lot of things, but I am learning to listen and blame myself. It is going to take her changing herself. Oh and telling her this is not going to help either just to let you know. Hope the best for you in the future.
2006-11-21 18:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Hello!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you have to be at the same place there and agree if yoru ready and she's not its not going to happen. you'll have to sit her down and be very serious to her say all yelling and knitt picking aside i want this to work and im willing and able if you are. but this must be a joint effort you can't clap with one hand
if she doesn't want it then you have your answers. by the sounds of what you have said she's not too keen on it.
good luck
2006-11-21 18:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this lady is a very troubled person, if you really want to be with her then you will have to be very patient, give her space and allow her to talk to you when she is ready, try not to pressurise her. We are all very different snd it seems in this case that you are going to have to be the strong one. I wish you a happy future.
2006-11-21 18:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like no use to me.
2006-11-21 18:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋