I am 22(Tall and strong). When I was of 19, once my neighbour(F-41, Separated) called me for some work at 1:00 p.m.. I entered and there was no body.Suddenly i saw that one hot CD was running. I just seen it for 5 minutes and she came and locked the door and without saying anything she started to do oral to me. She was doing it very badly like a thirsty person. I could not protect myself at that time. After an hour we left. After a week she meet me in the market and told that what is wrong if i allow the same. I agreed to her and we are doing it almost regularly. I don't know why i committed and why she is doing to me? Whether she will be doing to anyone else?whether i should continue? Lot of questions in my mind. Pls Answer.
2006-11-21 22:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When all is said and done it`s all gonna come back to "You". It`s your decision not someone elses!!
2006-11-21 22:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by william v 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So you can't protect yourself from this woman, huh? Like a lamb to the slaughter are you. Tall and strong, huh? Call the police, she has been raping you for three years. OK knucklehead, you are there because you want to be there. Now that the fun and games are running their course, doubt about her motivations are sending warning sirens to your brain. You don't trust her. Well, here it is. Once she tires of you, and you become old hat, she will dump you IF she can find someone else to lead by the penis. IF. Hey, she exploits you, and you have been exploiting her too. You are not innocent here. She seduced you, but you then made a decision to continue. The seduction is on her. The continuation is on you. You could have walked away. What is done is done. You can't change the past. Today is the start of the rest of your life. Make a decision. All choices have consequences. Make a choice with a good consequence. A young stud in his twenties with a woman in her forties? You see anything wrong with that picture?
Understand co-dependency. Are you caught in its net? IF so, you need to break away. You may need help, in which case a counselor may be of help. Of course if you left out a little detail like you married her, then all bets are off. Get out while you still can, if you still can. This relationship is very unhealthy.
2006-11-21 22:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both consenting adults (kinda), so as long as you are not being "forced" to do things with this woman, and you are both enjoying the encounters, then I don't particularly see anything wrong. The only dilemma is your conscience, and possibly your morals are offended. Decide which is more important to you - your morals (therefore you must stop seeing this woman) or your pleasure (which, as I assume you are both single, is not hurting anyone). So if you are both single, enjoying the meetings, and not hurting anyone in the process - Enjoy!
2006-11-21 22:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have started enjoying , do continue , but make sure you are not involve emotionally and using all the precautions , and don't bother about, who is visiting her , when you are not around . And must take care of your health by eating all the three meals regularly , even ask her to offer you some fruit punch or juice .
2006-11-21 22:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you recognize what I also have a male chum who needs to take issues added with me we've the comparable closeness you 2 have (nonetheless we've in no way been actual) the element is i might desire to in no way be in a relationship with him even nonetheless i individually like him when I advised him this i gave him a hazy answer there are actully some motives however the main one is i dont fancy him i might desire to in no way tell him that so i tell him the different motives i dont prefer to injury him. in line with threat she doesnt prefer to injury you. I dont prefer to lose him from my existence which on occasion can ensue to human beings while they initiate a relationship if it ever ended. in line with threat you will possibly lose the friendship in line with threat she is petrified of that still.
2016-10-04 05:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that as long as you both enjoy it go for it but don't get emotionally attached. Also you could see if you can get a little money out of the deal
2006-11-21 23:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Doc Phil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be asking her what the deal is. Obviously there is no emotional attatchment. Meanwhile have fun getting your groove on
2006-11-21 22:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OOk. Just tel her one day that u have a girlfriend.
2006-11-21 22:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my God! you're just the same age as my oldest son! stay away from that woman before she destroys you,ok!
2006-11-21 22:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by nova 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy....I don't understand the problem your getting some and its not hurting anyone.....
2006-11-21 22:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋