try b4 you buy... need i say more???
2006-11-21 22:54:51
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answer #1
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answered by talkintame 2
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Living together before marriage allows both persons to know each other better than they already do. Afterall, when they live together, they're actually with each other 24/7.
You see your other half at times you probably would never see them if you weren't living together. This means you get to see his/her habits (some people have a tendency to be a slightly different person at home from when they're outside), how he/she handles certain situations, etc.
In a way, it sort of prepares you for the kind of life you'd be living in future if you were to spend the rest of your life with him/her.
Living together before marriage is like a learning process. You learn more about the other person. And if you don't like some of the things you see or experience during this time, I guess it kinda tests your patience and tolerance as well.
You'd also be able to see if your other half has violent tendencies or not. This is one very good reason why I think every couple should live together first.
Personally, I think the best reason of all is that, it prevents the marriage from ending up in a divorce that's caused by too many differences (personality, mannerisms/behaviour, etc.) btwn the couple and too little tolerance for these differences.
2006-11-22 07:14:56
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answered by sTaRFaiRiE 2
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Would you buy a car without taking it for a test drive first? I don't think so!
Living together is a good thing. At leasts then you get to see all the little quirks, that could irritate the shiit out of you, before you get married. (Like squeezing the toothpaste in the middle, or leaving the toilet seat up for example!) That way, you can sort it out before you end up getting married (and then probably divorced)!
2006-11-22 07:35:54
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answer #3
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answered by dragonfly 4
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I believe that the biggest reason people should live together before gettingmarried is quite simple. You DON'T know someone until you have lived together. You don't know this person habits in daily life. You don't know if he/she is a neat freak or a slob. You don't know if this person is nice or nasty. If they like company over for the holidays. You don't know if they cook or if they even like to cook. You don't know if they like to sit there watching TV and then out of nowhere have a BIG FART. Really think about it. There really are all so many reasons or thoughts on this subject it would really be impossible to discuss them all here. To live with someone BEFORE you marry them is a BIG BIG benifit.
2006-11-22 07:08:26
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answer #4
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answered by GRUMPY 7
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Because they are inseperable, and cannot wait until the are married. Well that is the only reason I will live with a partner. This whole test trail thing is just not for me. I deserve better.
2006-11-22 06:56:57
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answer #5
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answered by krisi 3
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Then what is the necessity of marriage, continue with it, it is simple. Marriage is solemnization. If you are sincere towards God you will be blessed with a good partner. There is no need of tasting the food in a guests house where you have been invited.
2006-11-22 07:06:22
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answered by ravindran_kc.alhadhrami 2
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to see if that person is the one that you want to spend your whole life with.but some people can live with their partner and that partner can be nice and sweet. but when you say i do all hell will break lose
2006-11-22 06:55:33
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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You can find out more about a person and their lifestyle if you are there and see what they do and how they do things everyday. You can witness their temperment too. You can see what type of person they are and how clean they are, etc.
2006-11-22 06:54:18
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answer #8
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answered by Just Bein' Me 6
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I have come to the conclusion that no one should be together for life.
2006-11-22 07:03:06
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answer #9
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answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3
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You get to Milk the cow and make sure the milk's not sour before you buy it! ~crude I know, but you get the idea~~
2006-11-22 06:59:29
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answer #10
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answered by Cdn_Superdave 4
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see if you are compatible. If I would have known before marriage what I know now.... life would be different
2006-11-22 06:55:44
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answer #11
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answered by Jennifer L 6
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