when will they stick to one?
2006-11-21 23:09:46 · 23 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
does stupidity count as an answer? Honestly. When a man isn't whole with himself, then he will seek to fulfill this"emptiness" when a vast amount of things. workaholic, alcohol. drugs, women. In some cases it gives them a sense of power. It builds their lacking self confidence or their ego, only to find that this woman no longer does it, so they go on the hunt to find the elusive one the"dream catch" it doesn't matter how capable or beautiful the woman is. the problem does not rest with her. it rests in him.
2006-11-21 23:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Fugitive Peices 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men don't flirt and have flings because of how another woman looks but because of how they feel about themselves when they are with the other woman. If his own wife exudes extreme capability and confidence he may feel inferior to her and thus will seek to soothe his bruised ego by proving to himself that he can attract other women which makes him feel virile. The fact that his wife is beautiful or not makes no difference. The problem is within the man himself. It is a wife's responsibility to make him feel appreciated. No better way than in the bedroom. When she makes him feel like a great lover then he will act accordingly. So, if the beautiful, capable, and outstanding wife isn't spending enough time with him in the bedroom she is in effect undermining her own relationship. While this isn't a justification it is just an explanation. People venture out when there isn't a need being satisfied at home. If a woman constantly criticizes, berates her spouse and even competes with him then she puts herself in a position of being his "rival" and not his mate whom he would owe loyalty and fidelity.
2006-11-22 07:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wives have a tendency to become boring, possessive, domineering, self-centered and usually cause the dew to go off the lilly..like they only want what they want when they want it. Seems when people get married that little pc. of paper they get changes their attitudes toward one another..The courtship is over and now life is boring..something like that. Are all wives like that no..but a great majority are. Take the same 2 people let them live together, share together and each knows the other can split at will..seems their attitudes don't change much, they still remain in the courtship life style! why is that? Seems marriage means ownership and that is the down fall..In my opinion! Talked to allot of guys on this subject and they feel pretty much the same.they all don't have screwed up marriages but never the less they still have feelings that relate to these statements..Good question..I hope you get some productive answers..will keep watch this post..Good luck to you!
2006-11-22 07:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by flashrtp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi all the men's around world is same.So please don't waste time asking why? why? why?.Just think WHAT make them to do that sin? Men's are worst at this particular think(ladies).The ladies is the one who make men to flirt and flings.(*i never said all the ladies but there r some which still around)
2006-11-23 05:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by ariva81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like DOGS and they don't usually care if they have a beautiful wife at home, that other head does the thinking for them (or NOT)
2006-11-22 07:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by josified 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe by flirting around and having flings, they can show off to their friends that they still have the charm.
2006-11-22 08:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is a fun game. Flings are just wrong i would never take flirting further than just flirting unless my wife was also involved.
2006-11-22 22:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by The Tramp Collector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who behave this way have no character and too much ego.character would prevent them from flirting and their ego needs to be fed to make them feel like what they are ,men.not realizing that be a man means to be proud of his wife and her accomplishments.her accomplishments can be a reflection of how much support and love her man gives her instead he is intimidated by that success and needs to fool around to feel masculine.
2006-11-22 07:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most men are dogs. married men should of been ready to settle down when they committed in the beginning
2006-11-22 07:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by mrmiketattoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because men have 2 heads and they only think with their lower head!!....Some men DO stick to one women...Hard to find thou!!
2006-11-22 07:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋