Marriage & Divorce - 17 November 2006

2006-11-17 12:05:04 · 1 answers · asked by twister 2

it there a legit way to get him out of the house forever.....i am over 21 and don't need him ruling over my mom and the rest of my family.

2006-11-17 12:02:19 · 11 answers · asked by need help 2

I met someone a few months ago & been dating, He still is married but seperated, He has a 2 year old boy, which I have not met yet, He picks his son up everyother weekend. He said at first the divorce was just not finaly yet, I found out now that they like it this way, because they can do there taxes together & she still get covered with health benifits....This bothers me alot, I haven't said TO MUCH yet b/c its only been a few months, I thought they might persue the divorce after this tax season. I was excided about thanksgiving b/c I wanted to ask him to go with me, But I just asked him what he does for thanksgiving and he told me he goes to his familys & at night he goes to the wifes house and has dinner with them (wife & son) Now I think there is something wrong with that, when I said so, he got mad & said people don't have to hate each other, Me and her just like hang out with our son together & thats all. How do I get it through his head that this isn't right, or am I wrong. HELP

2006-11-17 11:49:15 · 23 answers · asked by Sweetie 2

Is is true that in some states when one does not have a WILL that the state can take custody of their children and much more?

2006-11-17 11:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by Donald S 1

2006-11-17 11:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u ever wonder how did i get here. im 20 years old married and have a baby. im happy with my life. and i know im the one that made these decisions and thats why my life is the way it is. but is it wrong to miss my old life? i feel like iv lost myself in the past year. my husband works alot every weekend and mostly nights. so we hardly ever go out. i use to have so many friends but don't anymore cuz i don't have much in common with most 20 year olds. i get so stressed out so easy. and get unhappy some days. and take it out on my hubby. i miss having alot of friends and having fun. (not drinking or datin) just doing stuff. u know? does anyone feel the same way? is it wrong feeling like this?

2006-11-17 11:40:38 · 13 answers · asked by sexymama06 2

there are some people that have lots of money but are lousy in bed and tends to put a dent in the marriage. others don't make alot but can rock your world. so what is right

2006-11-17 11:36:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 11:33:23 · 67 answers · asked by pinkychel 1

I have been in love with my ex-boyfriend now for 29 years. We broke up 9 years ago, and he has been married now for 7 years. I still love him with all my heart, we don't see each other ever, but i still love him. I wish that i didn't. I don't know what to do after all this time to change my feelings.

2006-11-17 11:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by janelle p 1

2006-11-17 11:24:10 · 14 answers · asked by sharon p 1

wife told husband he needs to grow up and get his lfe together so leave does anyone think she could be seeing someone else after becoming husbands bestfreiends ,friend

2006-11-17 11:22:36 · 11 answers · asked by mike r 1

Do you ever feel like that?

2006-11-17 11:22:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married a few years, he loves me very much, he likes to take care of me a lot and is always on my side whenever he is not at work. We do pretty much all of our activities together and we never seem to be bored of each other, it seems like the more we spend time together, the more we don't want to be apart from each other. I get lots of compliments from him too about my appearance. The only bizarre thing is just that he is not into sex at all, we rarely do it. We have discussed it many many times but nothing seems to change him. Any advice? should I leave him alone and live with the fact that that's the way it is and just enjoy the time together doing other things and loving each other or is it something that has to change?(I feel irritable when we don't do it more often)

2006-11-17 11:14:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i go to the store or a resturaunt, i see all these pathetic men just catering to there womans every want and need. There is a fine line between love and slavery and these men are acting like little bitches. It is the most pathetic thing i have ever seen. If these women arnt putting out then these men need to be whipped with a belt. I say men and women should each give 50-50. not 100-0. I can see the future filled with little girly men and BLAH!!!

2006-11-17 11:14:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

court system and the man gets married does his new wife or does his wife have any say on how the child should be brought up? and if so to what length if any? give examples

2006-11-17 11:11:44 · 1 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1

K, my situation is complex!
My hub. n I have only been married 2 years but have been living together 10. My mother had cancer, I bought a bigger house, moved her in with then fiancés approval...over a year conflicts, things mellowed, marriage, things got insane, conflicts more and more, we are all control freaks, *HIS MAJOR FLAWS: he abuses prescrip. valium and mary jane, mom never totally approved, nor do I of his drug use any more of which he now blames my mom...he propositioned a friend....AFTER marriage...
Just a total mess.
I love him but don't trust him.
Could I ever make it work or am I sadomasochistic (sp)? Is it all my and my mom's fault...
I'm a mommy's girl. She cared for me for years after a debilitating accident...
Who do I choose?

Does husband ALWAYS come first?

Much more to story but it's like a novel.

2006-11-17 11:11:24 · 16 answers · asked by Avillion 1

A few years ago my mother inlaw was very critical of me, the way I dressed and spoke. She got her sister inlaw to side with her. Down the track I dont realy trust her. To keep things calm and because there are grand children how do I get along with this person.

2006-11-17 11:11:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband weve only been married 5 months and he is already looking to have sex with other females.. I know I need to leave but Im so in love that it hurts! I know already love is not suppose to hurt.. but I feel paralyzed ...I have the opportunity to leave.. I have spoken to him about the issues and he will stop texting one female and start with another! I believe he is a sex addict...I love having sex too but just with him...How do I get the "balls" to walk away!

2006-11-17 10:57:40 · 11 answers · asked by Loving life! 1

I personally know many men who are trampled during a divorce, but yet they don't seem to get down and dirty to defend themselves and their assets. Some of these wives walk away with a bulk of the marital assets, but the man seems reluctant to get an attorney , or as I have heard, they just hope It "blows over quickly." Why why why?

2006-11-17 10:56:25 · 14 answers · asked by janhangger 1

This guy flirts with me and I find him very attractive I feel as if we are so meant to be together I am also married and normally a very moral person but i feel as if I would throw it all away to be with him. Should I make a move or just move on?

2006-11-17 10:55:45 · 36 answers · asked by kd 2

My ex broke up with me two months ago. She broke up with me the day after she started seeing a therapist for her troubles. Her father died 5 months ago, she has low self esteem, and told me she has been unhappy for a long time. She said that she could not be happy in a relationship until she was happy with herself. She apologized, asked me not to hate her, and said she thought we had really good potential, but the timing of us sucked because of her. She apologized for me having to deal with a crazy person like her but said she hoped we could talk and be friends cuz thats all she could handle for the moment. I told her that I understood and am there 4 her if she ever needs anyone. I have not seen her in two months. I know she goes out with her other friends alot. I may hear from her every 2 weeks. She says that she hopes I am doing well and to drop her a line whenever. So do you think she misses me, or how do you think she sees me, maybe seein me would make her sad???

2006-11-17 10:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1

if i am 12 can i change which parent i live with or visit??

2006-11-17 10:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by motor mouth 2

Because my husband started a new job tonight. He left me flowers and a nice card and I got him nothing. I was kind of aggravated about the timing - he didn't have to start tonight. Should I get him a card and gift or can I skate with a card?

2006-11-17 10:37:52 · 15 answers · asked by Holly R 6

Well my sister is 23 and recently got married but I notice she is sad most of the time and has lost alot of weight..it hurts me to see her that way.. but she says everyday it fights and arguments about stupid stuff.. I tell her to pray about it she tells me they both pray together they are fine for a couple of days and its back to the same thing..I told her to come home but she said she got herself into the marriage so she will try to work it out ..What can I do for her she is my baby sister..I thought marriage was suppose to be happy ..I'M single and she tells me I'm better off that way..

2006-11-17 10:33:24 · 18 answers · asked by sweetlatina1272 2

I mean it's really is a piece of crap, but so is she. Heck the tires are all flat (kinda like her) everything leaks (again her) all the cracks in the floor squeak (again) and it smells real bad (again).
The thing is, the house, ok trailer, is worth about 500 bucks. More that she is by about 400 bucks. On a good night.
If I do, do you think she'll quit sitting on the trailer hitch of my truck?

2006-11-17 10:32:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I grew up hearing from every woman and man that there is no such thing as a loyal man, I always accuse my husband of cheating and then he proves me wrong. i think this can ruin our marriage.

2006-11-17 10:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by maria o 1

2006-11-17 10:21:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've fallen for this guy, we've met, text, emailed etc.. and he tells me he really likes me but he doesn't want to hurt me! His ex-wife cheated on him and now his ex-girlf of 7 years has also cheated on him!

I understand that he's still very hurt of what has happened, I know he needs his space, and I tried to be there for him as a friend, shoulder to cry on etc.. but that is so out of my character, its something I've never done and I'm really going out of my way to help him.

I have told him that he can contact me when he feels he's healed from the pain and suffering.. I won't contact him cos I don't want to hound him. I'm in total devastation, and he knows how much its hurting me cos I know he's the one I want to be with.

Do you think I should wait til he heals? or shall I move on?

2006-11-17 10:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by happy soul 2

Ok, if he was a jerk this would be easy. He is kind compassionate wonderful man. But, on the flip side...there is the ex-wife.
When we first got together, I knew that things were going to be hard for her (seeing us together) so out of respect for what they had and the kids that they have brought into the world I tried to be understand and even compassionate. Now she is attacking my charcater, I know that I will have to deal with her for the rest of our lives. He gave me a ring (btw awesome..the zales diamond) I said I have to think about it. The question is not about love, the love is there, the question is can I survive this relationship without wanting to strangle both of them? Him for not taking a stand, her for not being mature enough to handle our relationship

2006-11-17 10:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by Sweet T 3

2006-11-17 10:10:35 · 18 answers · asked by sami 1