2006-11-17 10:21:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You said 'girl'. How old is she? I would say that makes the married man a pedophile AND a cheating bastard. The girl needs to find someone her own age without a prior commitment.
2006-11-17 10:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D.R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no ifs,ands or buts about it....it is wrong wrong wrong. If that were her husband and he was cheating on her, how would she feel about it? There is no excuse in the world for anybody to cheat. If she did not know that he was married, then I would let her slide a bit, but as soon as she knew that he was married, she should have dumped him on the spot!! But I am not going to down just her either. That is one thing that really upsets me so bad about the cheating people, 9 times out of 10 it is the female that every body goes after for the butt chewing. The man is no better. I think that anybody that cheats or is the play thing of the cheater are both scum.She needs to leave him alone and let him be, she needs to find a man that does not have a wife or a girlfriend out there period. When someone goes out with someone, they might not know at first that the other is married/has a girlfriend, as a cheater will lie to you in a heart beat. But as soon as they find out that the other is married or has a girlfriend....leave it alone..get out of there!!!!
2006-11-17 11:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many different things. Maybe the girl is fearful of making a commitment to an available man and therefore has to attach herself to someone who can not be truly committed to her. It could also be that the girl does not have enough self-esteem to be more particular about her choices and what is best for herself, rather than falling into a situation that is passing her way. Yet another thought, maybe the girl finds a thrill in doing something deceptive and forbidden.
I don't intend to be harsh in my response or judgmental. Personally, I don't approve of such a relationship because I believe in the end it causes grief to all concerned. In the best of possible scenarios, even if this man would leave his wife for you, how could you ever really trust him? If he cheated on her, what is to prevent him from doing it to you?
2006-11-17 10:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lucid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea. A married man should date another married woman. They would both be less likely to tell others about the affair.
2006-11-17 10:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Robert 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Dating a married man is called a dead end relationship. Disaster is bound to happen. Someone is going to get hurt. I hope this man you are dating does not have children with his wife, because if he does they stand to be hurt for life because of your selfish immaturity. You need to call it off immediately. There are plenty of men who are singlr. Just find the right one for you.
2006-11-17 10:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by MeToo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any woman dating a married man is going to get dangerous repercussions from Karma and I also think that she has absolutely no self worth.
How do ya like them apples?
2006-11-17 10:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean to tell us you could not find a single man anywhere on this planet. I'm not a very religious person but I think you just earned that special place in hell for what you are participating in.
You both will be getting your wish and be next to each other. Burning in hell for breaking a couple commandments.
Heathen's!
2006-11-17 10:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl knows that the guy is married, then she is only fooling herself.. she's allowing herself to be used without realizing it..
she's also interfearing with a marriage that is none of her business.. and that's totally inappropriate and immoral.
there are plenty of single guys out there in the world, no reason this girl can't find a man who isn't already taken..
2006-11-17 10:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is very wrong, and hurts the wife and keeps him from working on what's wrong in his marriage. and causes divorce. also the other woman runs the risk of loosing because he has spent more years with the wife, and can leave the other woman at any time and go back to his wife. men cheat because they have low self worth, and the other woman is stroking his ego making him feel special, and it's new and exciting, but won't always be that way. i do beleive that one can never find happiness at the expense of another's heartbreak, i do believe in karma and that if u hurt someone it will always find u, it will always come back to haunt u.
2006-11-17 10:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether or not SHE knows he's married. If she doesn't, then there's not much anybody can say....if she does, then she's a homewreckin' little whore...it puts her down on the same level with the married man...
2006-11-17 10:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋