Why do men take womens crap???

Question

When i go to the store or a resturaunt, i see all these pathetic men just catering to there womans every want and need. There is a fine line between love and slavery and these men are acting like little bitches. It is the most pathetic thing i have ever seen. If these women arnt putting out then these men need to be whipped with a belt. I say men and women should each give 50-50. not 100-0. I can see the future filled with little girly men and BLAH!!!

Answer 1

Some men will do that but not all and it's do to the fact that if we don't do exactly what the women want they will probably leave or argue or something and to prevent that they will act like slaves. Some just have to put thier foot down!

Answer 2

You are absolutely right. I know that some people complain how some men can be controlling and their women are slaves. A few people realize that it can also be the other way around, and none of this is right. They SHOULD each contribute 50/50. I really feel sorry for those men who have to take all that crap from the women, and I also feel sorry for the women who are being controlled and bossed around by their man. I understand what you are trying to say, and I know that you are not judging. That is just the way it is and everyone should understand that some women can also be controlling and bossy. I mean, everyone should have manners but no one should be the other's slave. That just pisses me off.

Answer 3

I bet you have a woman who you give 50% to. And she gives you 50%. That may seem OK, but imagine if you both gave 100% to each other. Remember dont to judge a book by it's colors. meaniing women put up with alot of **** from men. Don't be a women basher, or a sexist. There should be equality. And just because you have issues don't try to judge other people based on yours. Homeboy holla back

Answer 4

Do I sense someone that is or has been recently jaded?? C'mon. Everyone knows that there are different types of relationships. What works for one person doesn't work for everyone but if they are happy, then let him cater to her. There are PLENTY of women out there that cater to men just the same way. So, maybe you're more intelligent or have a different mindset than the guys you speak of; doesn't make it wrong for them just because it's not right for you. Peace!!

Answer 5

I hate to say this but that crap goes both ways!! Why do "some" women take men's crap??? I treated my man like a little king and it got me know where at all. I left him after 5 years of being good to him and HIM taking me for grant!!!! And you have know clue as to how good she treats him at home either. At least you can tell that he really does love her by treating her that way. Your right it should be 50/50. But some guys treat their lady's to a night on the town for their anniversary, birthdays or just because...they love them.

Answer 6

Ok, as a man, I think of my wife and her feelings, needs and wants before my own. If that sounds to you like I'm her slave that's your opinion. But I think marriage should be 50/50. But I think the reason we have men out there in this world who let themselves be pushed around by women is because our culture today is feminizing men, and trying to teach women to be more masculine, well at least the feminist movement has done that with women.

And I'm sorry, I personally like to see men who are manly and protective, as men should be.

But I think that men should also do things that their wives ask them, not saying that women should use that as do this or no sex. That's wrong, that's just control there. But I think there are men who need to get a backbone because they do let women push them around. But on the other side of the coin, there are women who let men push them around because they are afraid that they will beat them.

If people I think showed more respect to each other, and treated others how they want to be treated this world would be alot better place.

Answer 7

How funny that I was talking about this subject today. Heck, I'm a woman and don't quite understand it. My husband and I do things for each other, we have a give and take.

It sickens me to see this, the only thing I can think of is the fact that they do it for the $ex.

Answer 8

LOL.. haha i think u are confusing Chivalry and Manliness with being "Macho".

men taking care of their women is hardly girly.. in fact, if they are proud of it, the more Manly they are. because a Man is not afraid to be what he is, and take care of his woman.

i would say a man is whipped if the woman treats him badly or tells him what to do. ThAT is "girly man", because a man should be doing things on his accord, not cuz he's scared of the woman or something. that's the difference... being Confident and Unafraid of what others think.... vs being a "slave" cuz he's scared of getting kicked to the curb.

dont' worry so much about others anwyas... just learn how to become a good Man... a strong, confident, Happy, Positive man who knows how to treat a woman. that means u have to find a woman who deserves it.. i think when u find her, u will see that it is not being whipped.. u do it cuz u LOVE her.

Answer 9

Trust me, if the men love the woman enough to do that, they are getting taken care of just fine===sounds like you need a little lesson in manners yourself

Answer 10

Oh my gosh!! Look on the other side of things. There are also relationships where the wife does just about everything for the husband....washes his clothes, keeps the house clean, cooks his meals, etc....etc....etc. Maybe these men are just showing gratitude for all the things their wives do for them.....Sheeesh!