2006-11-17 11:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay i am married to a wonderful guy, and i love him so much but i still have a thing for my ex, i want my marrige to last i love this life i dont want to loose him, how can i get my ex out of the picture......? i see him every were and it brings back old memories, please help.
2006-11-17 11:52:42 · update #1
you are in a very serious situation. one day your husband is going to wake up to this deception. and when that happens you will not have to0 worry about it any more and you will not have to ask a bunch of strangers this silly question. your husband will take that decision right out of your hands.
2006-11-17 11:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you love your ex, he will be on your mind. Thoughts are a part of loving somebody. You should never have married another guy, when you already loved somebody else. But, as for making your present marriage last, you MUST stop talking about your ex. Any marriage is tough to make work. Making one work, when your ex is a shadow presence in your bedroom isn't gonna work. Your husband deserves better than that.
2006-11-17 11:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, you're not in love with your ex. Your in love with the idea of the life you planned to have with him. You're obsessed with the "What might have been" syndrome. You need to snap out of it and realize what you have in the here and now, or you'll have another ex soon. How long do you expect your husband to stick around if he's feeling like he's competing for your affection? Put your energy into your future with your husband, not the past you had wit your ex.
2006-11-17 11:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know exactly what you are asking but if you asking if this is right i say no, respect your marriage and stop talking about your ex, matter of fact get over him or get divorced and marry your ex, im sure your husband doesnt deserve this and for some reason your ex is your ex, just think about that, you wouldnt like your husband doing the same now would you.
2006-11-17 11:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by marco 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love this new guy stop talking about your ex. Move on with your life.
2006-11-17 11:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so why did you get married to this man, if you are in love with your x, this seems rather unfair to your husband. And why are you posting this, it is not a question, it is a statement. What is the point? What is the question? or are you just bored, perhaps you should start a journal or something. God bless******************
2006-11-17 11:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you still think about your ex husband,how can you say you love your new, husband?
you married your new husband on the rebound,that's not fair to him,if you don't stop talking about you ex husband , you won't have any husband for long, stop talking about your ex husband and work on your new marriage
good luck
2006-11-17 12:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm!! OOnly reason you are hook with Ex is the sex. SEX with the EX must be great as compared with the husband. Well you need to decide: Great Sex or Loving Husband...your choice.
2006-11-17 14:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mussey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason so let him stay ex and keep you great husband no since crying over spilled milk.
2006-11-17 11:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by quinnsexylou 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well tough, you are a married woman now so get over your ex, I'm sure he's moved on...
2006-11-17 11:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋