Marriage & Divorce - 17 November 2006

2006-11-17 16:09:39 · 9 answers · asked by deepak kumar 1

young nanny, for young couple with 1 child,and then 1 on the way, moma and daddy had problems and the nanny stayed on, and then went on to be the live in girlfriend, she couldn't drive, she depended on him for everything, quit college courses and helped with his buisness and wanted to be like the kids mama. nanny hated the mama. she just wasn't what he wanted, should he pay her for the time she lived with him as a girlfriend, even though she helped with his small buisness, paper work and appts. does he owe her back pay now, that he doesn't want her in his bed anymore or his house. she actually helped in his getting a divorce when he was having problems with his pregnant wife?

2006-11-17 16:05:36 · 14 answers · asked by granny 3

Me and my husband have been together for 5 years. Before we got together he was obsessed with another female. Due to us having problems he has seaked her out and have spent time with her. It does not matter if he has physicaly cheated on me with her because I feel he has cheated in his heart. We recently have talked about making our relationship work which means alot of changing on both our parts in the marriage. We have spent two days together that was absolutly wonderful. Tonight while we were talking I asked him if he still talked to her and he said yes, not very often at all. I asked him if when he talked with her if he still had any hopes of still being with her and he said yes but he knows it will never happen and he is in love with me and needs me. Needing and wanting are two different things and I will never be this other woman and I feel he is settling because he can not ever have her. Should i con't to work it out and how do I get over the feeling I am second choice?

2006-11-17 16:00:02 · 22 answers · asked by Rigssy 2

I cannot find any specifics about this online. PLEASE, does anyone know? I am betting that the father is not liable for support until ordered in the divorce. Thanks!!!!!!

2006-11-17 15:59:45 · 3 answers · asked by yankeeroses3 2

What would you tell some one that was married for 18 1/2 years an the last 4 or 5 years was real bad an now are divorce have been for about 4 years. even has a boy friend but can't seem to move on it is like am an a world that am not supose to be in. been living with my boy friend for about 2 1/2 years now but I can't seem to get over my ex. even through there is no way we could ever get back togather there has been to much bad thing's that happen when we were going through the divorce. my boy friend would like for us to get married but I don't even want to think about marrying him. by the way am the one that wanted the divorce. it was so bad I was getting sick. But I will always love him. Now how do I get on with my life an make it feel right?

2006-11-17 15:59:35 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki 2

Says that it is his since the title is under his name, is he a liar? should I file for divorce?

2006-11-17 15:54:23 · 17 answers · asked by Baby 5

i have been unfaithful to my bf at the begining of our relationship, which was about a year ago. he still wants to be with me but im finding it hard to not get mad when he grills me about things because the way he does it. any suggestions? or maybe ways to let him know i love him and that he can trust me?

2006-11-17 15:53:57 · 5 answers · asked by barrelracer64 1

2006-11-17 15:53:10 · 9 answers · asked by Barser k 1

My husband spends hours a day looking at porn and talking dirty on chat sites. He even tries to get people to meet him. I got a keylogger and was able to catch him, (of course he swears he will not do it anymore) But I know he is still doing it. He always turns off the computer the moment anybody walks in the room.

2006-11-17 15:52:02 · 22 answers · asked by melodiezzz 1

or what kind of food i can eat

2006-11-17 15:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Barser k 1

2006-11-17 15:48:00 · 8 answers · asked by maya m 1

your 5 year old comes home with a cut lip and says the teacher smacked him (her) what would you do?

2006-11-17 15:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Korean women have 50% rate of marrying Caucasian men. In places like Hawaii, it's said to be 80%.

To an outsider, that's interesting.

How do Korean men deal with this kind of reality in their lives and their own women choosing non-Korean men over them?

How do Korean women feel about single Korean men complaining and bitching about White men and Korean female couple?

(www.WhiteAsian.com)

2006-11-17 15:41:17 · 4 answers · asked by big Enderon 1

By using cheap tactics used by slim ball attorneys, such as restraining orders. A woman only has to make the accusation and in family court the judge has to take her word for it. The restraining order issuance is so badly abused by women that it is common in almost all contested divorces.
And what repercussions does she face because of making false statements and lies? None.
Plus since family court is set up in favor of mom off the bat it becomes costly for men who want to have their children in their lives to fight long court battles that could easily run over the course of the child’s life.
Being that our society tells us that men are bumbling fools who are not capable of raising children, voters shoot down any initiative that would make it mandatory that parents share custody, given both are fit.
So to all you fathers out there, how does it feel knowing that your wife if she chooses could take your children at anytime? What are we going to do about that? I suggest you support any father’s rights group by joining and passing the word to everyone you know about how in today’s world of equal rights there is a grave violation of equality against us fathers.

2006-11-17 15:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

going out with her friends, its cool with me , but i dont trust her friends , and she dont get that? what should i do?

2006-11-17 15:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by christopherzaldivar 1

2006-11-17 15:17:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4

she says allways take care but when we talk we dont have any thing 2 talk in and when i say i miss her she never answer but she keep call me and when i dont call she says where ru but i think this ordinary not like b4 when she says b4 she love me any 1 can help and says 2 me what i can do plz

2006-11-17 15:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by hesham s 1

My ex used to say mean things to me. I called them verbal abuse - yet he said that I was too sensitive.

Would this be considered verbal abuse?

dummy of the dummiest degree
wuss
all 4 letter words
I am ashamed of you - you will drown socially at a wedding
his family thought that I was a zero.
He has to swallow to be with me.
I have evil eyes and a face that no one would reward.
most selfish person that he knows
cause destruction all around me

He also raised his hand at me and did hit me many, many times. Yet, I think he thinks that I deserved it.

He blames me now for the destruction that has been caused in his life. He says that I have caused him to lose so much money, not have a good family life, lose jobs, etc. I don't know how to take these accusations. His health is bad now and that is also my fault.

2006-11-17 14:57:09 · 30 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

She had to go to the ER on Wednesday.They found a bowel obstruction and sent her to surgery.They removed over 12" of intestine and found a tumor.The Dr tells me that he does'nt think it's milignant,but they will send it to a lab.Her parents are in LA and are not coming to Texas to see her.She does'nt have any family members here and it makes me so angry that they are not willing to hop on a plane to see her.She pretends like she does'nt mind,but I can tell she is disappointed.She is going through so much pain right now and they think that she'll be fine.Should I be pissed off?

2006-11-17 14:50:26 · 44 answers · asked by charles 4

My son has been getting in trouble lately. He changed schools. He is 16. I am divorced. All has been going quit well, until just recently, he began to get into trouble (skipping classes, smoking funny cigaretes) I have talked to him. I have chastized him. What is my next step. Help

2006-11-17 14:45:13 · 14 answers · asked by Ucan2 2

Sometimes when I decide to make love to my wife she asks me to go on, caress her, fondle her and even make love to her while she is watching TV or reading a novel. Is she disinterested in me?

2006-11-17 14:32:17 · 25 answers · asked by Justanian 1

i am married for 3 years , and i am feeling suffacating .so i wanted to go to london or paris for 1 year, for my higher studies ,as i am a fashion designing student. i want some space. when i try to explain him he says ok ,but he gives comments and he makes me gets scared of going alone.i am not having problem with money, but even though i am not able to do.this time iwant to go any way by next year ,can i?

2006-11-17 14:28:20 · 21 answers · asked by saratvsb 1

My wife was unfaithful to me, and I have been waiting around for months and months. She was confused on if she was going to be with me or the other guy. I was asked to go out on a date by another girl, so I said ok. I really had nothing to lose. Things with that girl are going ok. I expected to get a divorce from my wife. That is why I decided to go back into the dating market. Now she wants to get back with me. I know this is wrong to most of you...."because I am unfaithful too". I am just human,and need to know that I am going to be happy. You are telling me this is wrong? Of course I am going to get a divorce.

2006-11-17 14:25:48 · 11 answers · asked by EternalBlueMemory 4

2006-11-17 14:23:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married, and my wife has been unfaithful, and I have moved on with someone else, but I am still married.

2006-11-17 14:17:32 · 28 answers · asked by EternalBlueMemory 4

I was forced to get married to someone I have not seen since that terrible day. what can I do?

2006-11-17 14:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by debam bam 1

Sept '05 I left my marriage of 8 years. I lived for so long without "feeling" & leaving seemed the only alternative. I loved my husband but couldn't be emotional or intimate with him. A therapist helped me realize I've been depressed for many yrs & I've also been suffering from a mild personality disorder. Now that I'm tackling my problem I realize I love my ex husband dearly. The worst mistake I made was leaving. He's moved on with someone else for good reason. I was emotionally unavailable for so long. But now, after yrs of feeling nothing, I've been grieving non stop for a yr & a half... not only because of my divorce but for all the lost yrs of love with my wonderful husband. Because I love him I have to let him be free, but my heart continues to break and time doesn't heal the wounds. I have a successful career, I go on dates, I exercise, I have friends. But nothing fills the void of my ex husband. I miss him. I love him. I want to move on, but how? Please help!

2006-11-17 14:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by Emmamart 2

You'll get in a slump,and loose everything ,and theres resources all arounf you butyou dont acess them,and your response is I cant work,and he's the head.

You will not put the kids in daycare, even if its free and you want even get a part-time job to help out,no schooling nothing he is the head remember? is it fair

2006-11-17 14:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by chiquita d 2

Ok, the other day when I posted about my lady friend moving across the country with her guy when he had to move for work, and when they got there he was a jerk and she wanted out, you ALL said he didn't have to pay her way back, she should pay for her own move. Yet when Rockwell talked about his wife here on Answers, how she moved 800 miles to be with him, you ALL said PAY HER WAY BACK?? WTF??

2006-11-17 14:11:54 · 4 answers · asked by Ade 6

We were together for several years and have 2 kids. He proposed to me and everything. We did fight and had a lot of problems. he recently left me for a coworker who is younger. I may be stubborn but I do anything for anyone, I gave him everything and did everything to make him better himself. He says he still loves me and always will, I am his best friend. He has already moved in with her. His family refuses to meet her or allow her at their home. I think he is just "smitten" with her and will eventually come crawling back, but then again I am afraid he is having too much fun because she has no kids and no responsibility. I desperately want to try it again and I really hope we can work it out before Christmas, what can I do? No rude answers please, I know I shouldn't take him back, but I don't care.

2006-11-17 14:02:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous