You'll get in a slump,and loose everything ,and theres resources all arounf you butyou dont acess them,and your response is I cant work,and he's the head.
You will not put the kids in daycare, even if its free and you want even get a part-time job to help out,no schooling nothing he is the head remember? is it fair
2006-11-17 14:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by chiquita d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No is the answer but we are in the year of women run the world. You have to close your legs and tell him if he wants sex tell him to put on a rubber or get cut. putting the kids in day care wouldn't do any good cause you would be working just so they could go there. Come on girl. You could tell him this If you divorced him all of his money would go to you, Why???? I women that doesn't work and wanted you to stay home with his 4 kids would have to pay over 72% of his pay what he makes after tax's. Ask him now what does he want to do about this problem. I am telling you that women today are tough and us men are no match .
2006-11-17 14:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can barely make out what you just wrote, so I'll go by the initial question. It's not FAIR no, however lots of people do it. Some people just love having kids. As long as you have food and clean clothes, all that other material junk doesn't mean jack. People try to put too much on having the bigger car, bigger house and brand name clothing. All these things are nice, but having a stay-at-home parent (mom or dad) is MUCH more important to a child's well-being, than to be raised by a childcare worker. Why have kids if YOU aren't going to raise them?
2006-11-17 14:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by lotzamoney4jocey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the he is the "head" excuses. You are both responsible for taking care of your children. You are cheating the children. Although they are young now they won't always be and with age comes expenses. How will you feel when you are unable to provide them with the necessities. How about their senior year in high school? Do you have any idea what that costs with cap & gowns, yearbooks, senior trips, memorabilia, class rings etc... plus college application fees, Sat fees, Act fees , club fees, and if they are in extracurricular activities there are also fees associated with that which aren't covered by schools in total. No one can make you NOT WORK. Those who don't work ; don't eat. A "head" of house MUST have his "HOUSE" in order. Learn how to say NO or get on birth control. It is unfair to the kids that you have already.
2006-11-17 14:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not about what you do, or if he's the head of the household or not, Your main priority should be your children and if your husband is supporting you all then you should consider that... Don't put anything ahead of your kid's needs, there is no way that your childen are proovided for properly... I have 2 kids, i don't work and he brings home more than that and were strained money wise...
2006-11-17 14:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First its not fair to each of the kids.Every time you have another child it takes a little more from them such as money,toys,food,entertainment,advantages.Second its not fair to the working society if you should have to get goverment help.The working class american people allready have to pay for there kids plus help pay for the rest of the kids who's parents don't work or have insurance.
2006-11-17 14:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With how expensive it is to raise 1...no it is not fair or responsible to have 4+ kids if he makes less than $50K
2006-11-17 14:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't support them, don't have them. Sure there's resources, but wouldn't you like to raise your own kids?
Figure out how many kids you can effectively care for financially, emotionally, and otherwise and stick with it.
2006-11-17 15:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have believed that having extra little ones might want to improve the marriage by bringing out extra of the guy's parental instincts or making him experience a experience of legal responsibility. i have considered this progression formerly.
2016-11-29 05:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! are u joking?
It takes more than 50,000 a yr to raise even one child!
Is this man you are with a control freak? sounds like it...you better not have any more babies girl....
2006-11-17 14:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not fair. Get some birth control.
2006-11-17 14:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋