going out with her friends, its cool with me , but i dont trust her friends , and she dont get that? what should i do?
2006-11-17 15:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by christopherzaldivar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can't trust HER then the marriage will NEVER work...
2006-11-17 15:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to trust her friends, you're not married to THEM. Tell your wife how much you trust her and tell her you hope she has a good time. Give her a long passionate kiss as she leaves and tell her you will be waiting *wink* for her when she gets back. I know I would be thinking of coming home the whole evening and even come home early!
2006-11-17 23:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by 2Bme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One's spouse is not one's possesion. It looks like you need some space between you two. Trusting each other is what is all about in a relationship. Mistrust will lead to tension and arguments. Let her be and just be yourself. If she really loves you, she'll appreciate the space you are giving her....
good luck
2006-11-17 23:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your wife. Regardless of her friends, you should trust your wife to do the right things.They say birds of a feather, flock together but don't you always see one bird that is way farther behind.
2006-11-17 23:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to trust her friends, you have to trust your wife. Trust your wife until she gives you a reason not to.
2006-11-17 23:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to control who she keeps as her friends - it's just going to start an argument. if you are really concerned, then try and get her to start hanging out with some people that you approve of - introduce them to your wife and casually suggest they go somewhere together... but if she says no, you really can't force it.
2006-11-17 23:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by harleyq8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you don't trust her friends you should trust that she would not do anything that would hurt you or your marriage
2006-11-17 23:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by mshukri5801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without trust there is no love
2006-11-17 23:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by lexie1488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋