Marriage & Divorce - 17 November 2006

here to be with me

2006-11-17 14:01:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone is different, and some people just don't have an interest in s e x. My spouse is one such person. But I sure have an interest. What's the best way to find a friendly lover?

Note: I don’t need to hear from the ignorant sanctimonious meddlers. If you’re opposed to my question, just move along to another question, please.

2006-11-17 14:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to this man for 5 years now, he quit his job 11 months ago to write a book, I agreed to 6 months now we are going on 11 months, I work from home, supporting the whole family and take care of a 2 year old at the same time along with a school age child.

He does not do anything around the house, will not even take out the trash, stays up all night and sleeps ahalf of the day.

He is very nasty to me and treats me with no respect.

Today I found out that my company is closing and will be out of a job soon, I asked him to get a job so I can stay home with the younger child and he said he has no intentions of ever getting a job and reuses to feed me or my daughter from first marriage

and I can take care of him, he said he will stay home and care for the younger child but he will not even change a diaper.

I feel like he is a freeloader and I am a golden goose-I just want out, do you what I am being to tradional when I think a man should work?

2006-11-17 13:51:53 · 23 answers · asked by Just unhappy 1

My wife is from Mexico and I caught her cheating. She said that she I leaving. I don’t care but she told me that she is going to take our son to Mexico to live with her. How can I stop this or better yet how can I gain full custody? I love my son and she knows this and she is using him against me. She knows that if she leaves for Mexico I could never find them again. And I will probably never see my son again.

2006-11-17 13:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by guero75220 2

My husband and I had a child 2 years ago. We use to be SO sexually active...SOooOo sexually active. Now he seems to onyl think about worK and stress about things to where he is not even interested in sex anymore. I really getting aggravated and I dont know what to do, help me!!!

2006-11-17 13:48:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was on 20/20 tonight, just wondering what this is all about? what are these men thinking? any psychologists or there? I am curious to know why they do that and take a risk of being caught??? it's sick!

2006-11-17 13:45:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

You still love her, but you know it isn't going to work. How do you tell someone it is over?

2006-11-17 13:44:28 · 17 answers · asked by EternalBlueMemory 4

I met a separated woman who said she was going to get a divorce, but when it came time a year later, she refused. Said it was him.
I stayed with her anyway, but did not get any closer to her because of this. He is never coming back having been gone for 9 years now.
I spent time with my friends too, because she said it was ok.
3 years later, she gets into relationship with her English teacher in college on her "school days". I was unaware because I trusted her.
WTF? I had to commit but she doesn't?
Was that fair to me?

2006-11-17 13:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by alysonhell 3

His doctor told him that he had to cut back, as his blood pressure is getting too high. I told him to switch to healthy low tar Marlboro ultralights. He smokes 4 packs of regular Marlboro's or unfiltered Pall Malls a day. He said that he wants to cut back to 2 packs of healthy cigs for a while. He told me that he might need a pack from my carton of Marlboro's to make it through the day after all the bad news. The next thing I know he smoked the entire carton of my full flavor's in 1 day!!! Then he cut out his favortive Marlboro's. He smokes 3 packs a day of Pall Malls now, but says he is going to switch over to the lights then ultralights. I have noticed his gut getting bigger already! It has overlapped his belt! he is already complaing that he misses his Marlboro's. I don't want him to become so fat that he can't move anymore! He is already hefty and is only getting bigger! What should I do?

2006-11-17 13:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cry myselfy to sleeep,

I put a real picture of myself on here to get a real reaction... I hate this pc cos it makes my face look masculine

2006-11-17 13:33:14 · 51 answers · asked by Helen 4

Sheets of T.P. am I allowed to use, apparently I'm wasting too much?

2006-11-17 13:26:39 · 12 answers · asked by Skeeter 5

I am going through process of divorce. Are there any online groups/forums or places for similar people? How to kill time, and how to stop thinking about your past. I will like to forget about my past, and get busy in my new life. Any suggestions of what I might do to help it. Thanks for your replies to my Q.

2006-11-17 13:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by blore b 1

can be more than 2 people in a honeymoon?

2006-11-17 13:16:05 · 19 answers · asked by jade 1

My husband I have been married for over 21 years. He filed for divorce 2 months ago or so. He said that he no longer loves me. 3 years ago he had a short afair, I was very forgiving and things were moving on I thought. He is again friends with the gal who had the afair with but says nothing is going on this time, but close friends. Sex is not our problem, he still tells me that sex with me is the best ever. We are still living in the same house for the time being but not for much longer. We have had sex only 2 times sense he filed for divorce. He says he really wants to, but doesn't want to give me false hope of getting back together, so no more sex either. I love him so much and want him back! If I can't have him back, how do I fall out of love with him like he did me?

2006-11-17 13:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by ezbe2 1

just couriuos would like to know what people think about this .

2006-11-17 13:09:04 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2

I want to give my husband a Christmas he'll never forget!!

2006-11-17 13:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help me to understand what can change a woman so much .......... I think that I am too good with her and that she take me for granted............I do everythings to make her happy but today , I have enough and I , am unhappy......

2006-11-17 13:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by J/P 2

i accidently contracted it last night from a hooker????

2006-11-17 12:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

2006-11-17 12:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 12:47:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This fat kid was giving me **** every day for like a week. so i asked, "if i poked you with an icepick, would you explode". He ran off crying. what kinda ***** talks **** and then cries when someone talks **** back???

2006-11-17 12:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently went on a business trip and this man I work with had went on ad on about what a good time we were going to have on this trip. Well i kind of ignored him at first but then he kept after me all night which ended up at a bar with both of us drinking!!! we were with a group of our coworkers. He was very friendly and protective of me in this enviroment but when it got time to go we started walking out together and all of the sudden he was gone in the elevator. Co-workers are not allowed to frolic at our company but the next morning he actually had the nerve to say he pushed my floor # in the hotel instead of his and that he came back down stairs to look for me what do you think?????

2006-11-17 12:39:35 · 13 answers · asked by kd 2

2006-11-17 12:35:13 · 11 answers · asked by ariesfunram 2

I have full custody of my one year old. I'm wanting to move to another state for a better job. I want to set up visitation with her dad and i'm willing to met him half way. If he doesn't agree and wants to take me to court, do i have to wait untill something is final or can i go ahead and move. (don't judge me and say i'm wrong for taking her away from him thats not what i'm trying to do. He only sees her 4 days a month now)

2006-11-17 12:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by bananabread 1

will video games negatively affect a mans sex drive???

2006-11-17 12:31:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has been having fantasies about a MFM experience. she wants me involved, although I am not very well endowled, could that be the reason she is having these fantasies?

2006-11-17 12:31:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He was a drug dealer (not anymore)... but he told me he used to give her girlfriend like a $1000 dlls every 2 days and he bought her a brand new Expedition, cash. Now that he's out of "business" and works "legally" he doesn't make that much money. He hardly gives me $200 dlls a week to spend. And I just can't get over it! I keep thinking about the Ex-Gf all the time and I GET SO MAD!!!! What should I do??? Therapy?

2006-11-17 12:21:00 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1

if you dated a girl for several years and had 2 kids and you left them for another woman you worked with, would you be jealous if she had another man in her life or even if she was just hanging out with a guy as friends? even though you ended the relationship would you still be jealous? would you want them back?

2006-11-17 12:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Aluminum siding just didn't have the romantic appeal I was after.

2006-11-17 12:11:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

of course kissing and having sex with some one else.
But:
1.- what if you have fantasies with some one else?
2.- what if you play with yourself imagining you are with some one else?
3.- what if you think of some one else, while making love to your spouse?
4.- what if you have cyber sex?

2006-11-17 12:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by gone 4