if you dated a girl for several years and had 2 kids and you left them for another woman you worked with, would you be jealous if she had another man in her life or even if she was just hanging out with a guy as friends? even though you ended the relationship would you still be jealous? would you want them back?
2006-11-17 12:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he was always jealous when we were together, I couldn't even talk to other guys without him getting pissed
2006-11-17 12:29:16 · update #1
Why do you care what he thinks, feels, or wants? You aren't together, so the only thing about him that should matter is IF he supports his kids, and has a relationship with them.
2006-11-17 13:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope I'd never be that much of a creep to begin with. But seeing her with another person wouldn't make me want the relationship back, no. Chances are, if a guy leaves someone after all those years and two children for another woman, he doesn't have the heart to see what he left behind and if he seems to want them back, it's more about control than remorse.
My opinion anyhow.
2006-11-17 20:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the dog and bone syndrome, the dog doesn't want the bone but he doesn't want any other dogs to have it either, so he buries it, then forgets all about it unless some other dog happens to dig it up, then he wants it back. A lot of guys are like that, but he left you and his 2 children for some other woman? I see where the dog is coming from, but he has no right, just ignore it, unless you really want him back? But then he'll probably just do it again, try to find a better man.
2006-11-17 20:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the more important question. Why does it matter?
This loser left "your friend" and thier 2 kids to selfishly presue another relationship. Move on and pick someone that is right "for your friend"... not someone that would make the loser jealous. In the scheme of things he's not thinking about "your friend"
2006-11-17 20:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Vanchaser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens! My husband left me and I was devastated. But after abt 6 months I started talking to other guys and he was just crushed at the thought that I could have someone else. We ended up working things out, but for someone who claimed not to be jealous, he was following me around and kept asking if I had someone new. I didn't btw..
2006-11-17 20:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes I do. Whatever it is because she was my first love and then I will fill embarassed as she could not a happy life with me and she start find another person for her companion.
2006-11-17 20:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might get jealous
but I know it would be wrong, and i would have no shame if i make a scene or ask her about her relationships
2006-11-17 20:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.If a guy gets jealous, then he is totally hypocritical. If he does then she has the right to slap him.
Let us all remember, HE left HER first.
2006-11-17 20:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by ╣♥╠ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't want them back because there had to be a reason i didn't want her in the first place.
2006-11-17 20:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by AlishaM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wtf no
2006-11-17 20:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋