just couriuos would like to know what people think about this .
2006-11-17 13:09:04 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
These people are all crazy. We have become way too sesitive to kissing. Its a custom in a lot of countries as a simple sign of friendship. Kissing is NOT Cheating if its quick and no tongue action or *** grabbing is involved. Totally OK!
2006-11-17 13:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 14:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't divorce him for it but there still is a problem as you already witnessed it in the restaurant. They had a lingering hug and the staring was evident. I would confront your husband and maybe seek counseling. This same thing happened to me only I caught them kissing. They told me that it was all in my head and for a while I believed them. Later, while going through a divorce my husband told me the truth. What I saw was really true. I know it sounds weird but, you'd have to be there to know why I believed them in the first place. Your husband is going through some kind of fantasy concerning this woman. I would tell him that you don't want anything to do with this couple again. Cut off the relationship. Don't go visiting that city again if you can help it. Talk with him gently, lovingly but firmly. Let him know where you stand in all this and stand your ground. God Bless.
2016-03-19 10:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is what one does to win a game, you break the rules of the game so that you can win, and the other person loses...
Do you really want to reduce marriage to a game by calling the behavior of one of the partners cheating?
I'd say the kiss was a sign of something missing. Now why and what is missing... that is what really needs to be addressed... not the kiss.
2006-11-17 14:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a door to set you up for other things to go further in the future because you got away with it and when you get upset with him..
And even though it is not fully considered cheating to me....I would hate to hear it, but be relieved it didn't go further...then I would be wondering.....so it would cause problems...Marriage is about complete trust.
2006-11-17 13:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on wheather the kiss is a greeting kiss on the cheek that we give family and friends then it isn't cheating, if it has a sexual objective to it and it is on the lips or a french kiss that is hot and heavy, then it would be cheating.
2006-11-17 13:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's cheating. But I think those people who have done that will say it's not, and those who haven't will say it is. Good luck getting a straight answer!
2006-11-17 14:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating and if you aren't sure then ask yourself the question of how would I feel if my spouse kissed another person.
2006-11-17 16:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not the best thing to do that could cause some troubles. You have to think if the was the one kissing another woman then how would you feel? You have to remember that it works both ways not one.
2006-11-17 13:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do, but I know someone who thinks that it isn't cheating til you have sex. I still think that sort of behavior is unacceptable for a married person.
2006-11-17 13:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋