How do I tell my wife that I want a divorce, when she is from 800 miles away and gave up everything to come up

Question

here to be with me

Answer 1

coward

Answer 2

You don't say WHY you want a divorce, which leaves me wondering ...

Can You Save Your Marriage?
- Trapped in a Loveless Marriage
- Why Does Love Fade?
- Is There Reason for Hope?
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2001/1/8/article_01.htm

Wholesome Communication--A Key to a Good Marriage
- What Wholesome Communication Involves
- Obstacles to Wholesome Communication
- How to Promote Wholesome Communication
- "Wholesome communication helps bind hearts in lasting love."
http://watchtower.org/library/w/1999/7/15a/article_01.htm

The Bible Can Help Your Marriage
- How to Strengthen Your Marriage
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2003/9/15/article_01.htm

Why View Marriage as Sacred
- Love and Respect
- Time and Attention
- Avoid a Casual View!
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/5/8a/article_01.htm

EMPATHY--Key to Kindness and Compassion
- What IS Empathy
- Scriptural Examples of Empathy
- How to Cultivate Empathy
- Cultivate Fellow Feeling
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/4/15/article_01.htm

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Answer 3

Marriage is honorable to God. You told her in that special day that you will love to death and sickness for better for worst. You made a vow guess what? you need to be a man and deal with and work hard in trying to work your marriage out. Because you never going to find a perfect women. There always going to be conflicts , arguements etc in marriage. No matter if get the most beautiful wife in the whole world. Why you do something for her? Take her to the beauty salon to do her hair, do her nails and take her out because when you invest in your marriage in your wife to you get to love her more and more because you are investing in your marriage and is going to alot of money. Read the bible and find out what God tells us about marriage and her too. okay And I guarantee you that God will bless your marriage.

Answer 4

Well, sometimes people change and grow apart... they take different paths in life. If that is what happened with you and your wife just explain it to her.

If you want to get with another woman then that is actually mean and selfish of you and nothing you do or say will make you feel any better about betraying her trust.

Answer 5

Wait until she goes. Then travel 800 miles yourself and tell her.

Answer 6

how you should tell her depends on why you want a divorce. there are many ways to tell her none of them are going to come out good. maybe you could buy her a plane ticket back to where she came from she might get the hint

Answer 7

why didn't u tell her before she gave up everything to be with u? shame on u. if u are intent on divorce than help your wife through this pain, financially as well as emotionally, don't leave her destitute. u really needed to tell her way before this, think your a coward.

Answer 8

OK tell her to follow her dream whatever it might be and then break it to her easily and then at the end of it say you still love her she gone be hurt but at least you told her in a nice way

Answer 9

just tell her what a coward you are and she will travel the 800 miles back as soon as possible.

Answer 10

sound like you not much of a man.a man would not put his wife threw what you are going to,matter a man would not put anyone threw that.What are going to do just kick her out no money or anything.Be a man do the right thing one time for her.

Answer 11

First, be sure it is really what you want, then, just tell her and help her to set up her life without you again. Be fair. Help her to get back what she gave up.