she has been having fantasies about a MFM experience. she wants me involved, although I am not very well endowled, could that be the reason she is having these fantasies?
2006-11-17 12:31:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh sweety don't think negative on yourself....she just has a fantasy of a three some. Not because you are anything less than perfect in her eyes. everyone has fantasies and the way to stop this is to simply ask for the same in return. she is prob. just wanting your reaction from her question ..so play her game. Get her reaction when you ask for a FMF experiance.
2006-11-17 13:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know...these penis size questions are getting on my nerves. IF that is the reason she's having a MFM fantasy it is ONLY because you are concerned about your size. I don't see a problem with her having a fantasy and sharing it with you. It's a fantasy! You are going to tell everyone here that you've never fantasized about doing 2 women at once?! Fantasies are just that, fantasies. Dude, atleast she wants you there. I mean...she could fantasize about being taken by two male strangers. I would only get worried if she really starts persuing it in some manner. Bringing it up all the time. Stating how happy she would be if you did this. Changing her habits and acting out of sorts (like she is hiding something...perhaps fuliflling this fantasy without you and your permission). ONLY then would I be worried. Now, your penis is just fine the way it is and will bring her to as many climaxes as she needs. Now, since she has been so kind to share her fantasy, it is time for you to share one of yours. Good luck!
2006-11-17 20:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by adtmatt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes fantasies aren't worth living them out. I was single and had a 2 male female 3 some and I can tell you from my experience it wasn't like the fantasy. I don't feel because your not gifted has anything to do with it. I didn't marry my husband for that reason but because I love him. I think you don't need to worry about it and if you feel uncomfortable with it don't do it cuz you will regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-11-17 20:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies, by their nature, are just that. Mental images. The reasons often aren't known to the person having the fantasies. As long as they stay imaginary, and don't come to dominate the person's mind to the exclusion of reality, they usually are harmless. Unless your wife starts trying to realize this fantasy, it probably is harmless. Don't let this freak you out. After all, you certainly have fantasies of your own, just as we all do.
2006-11-17 21:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pleeeease! If you had anything to worry about, she wouldn't be telling you bud. If this is a fantasy she has, offer to make it come true. Who knows, your own fantasy might be granted later. Don't miss this opportunity, seize the moment man! If life gives you lemons, MAKE LEMONADE!
2006-11-17 21:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm is she into intense sex? Painful sex? If so she may like the thrill of being ganged up on. Size means nothing what matters is skill...width helps but length is immaterial.
She may be bored or she may be wanting to experiment if you want to follow through insist that the man meet your approval.
I feel like Jerry Springer.
2006-11-17 20:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel compelled to answer with a question...why is it okay for a man to want a wmw experience but as soon as the wife wants MFM he gets worried?
2006-11-17 20:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, She is looking for a different kind of excitement. Go with it, you will enjoy it as much as she does. And chances are it is just a one time thing.
2006-11-17 21:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by pressman22001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be worried. Not a good thing. It should not have anything to do with how well or not well you are endowed. She is just looking for excitement.
2006-11-17 20:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife just wants to try something different if your both comfortable and honest about your marriage this may work and then their is always ffm as long as you are both agreeable and not jealous types
2006-11-17 20:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋