Everyone is different, and some people just don't have an interest in s e x. My spouse is one such person. But I sure have an interest. What's the best way to find a friendly lover?
Note: I don’t need to hear from the ignorant sanctimonious meddlers. If you’re opposed to my question, just move along to another question, please.
2006-11-17 14:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage means monogamy. If you go to another person then you are cheating and I hope he or she divorces your butt. And NO, I am not religious in the least. It's just wrong to go against your word (your VOWS).
2006-11-17 14:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pashta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
has your spouse always been like this.. if not she may be a hormonal problem or depression i would suggest you taking her to a doctor first before you look elas where.. enough said on that one and back to your question..you could try a bar or maybe someone you work with .. with any luck you may find one with a bf or hubby who just wants a part time playmate..the Internet date web sites are good for this also just be sure to let them know that your married and are only looking for a special Friend a discreet relationship
2006-11-17 22:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know what you are going through. It has been 7+ years for my wife and I, and I mentioned about going out one evening, and she replied just bring me the money home. I am thinking about it seriously on taking her up on it.
She says that she can live without it, and that she does not need it. It is cheaper to live together than apart, so maybe I will take her up if she tells me that again.
I know there are people out here that disagree with me, but everyone is not honest either.
2006-11-18 00:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheat. If not try to experement by using fantacies of other mates, then adopt the new most terrific one. Thresome!!!?....Talk to your spouse and open the subject of trying threesome, mfm first then fmf next. Both of you will find more thrills and excitements. No other best things to adopt other than that to adds spice to your urges..
2006-11-18 05:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a long time hobbyist. It depends on which city you live in but they are boards where you can read reviews on them. I have a lot of fun. My wife is the same so I find it elsewhere now. Take a look at Craiglist the erotic section in the city you live in.
2006-11-17 22:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry, but u need to talk to your spouse before u decide to get it out side your marriage...Tell her that it's a need she needs to give to you...as a wife..dude...demand it!
2006-11-17 22:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are called **** buddies. Its going to be hard as women tend to get too emotional!!!!
2006-11-17 22:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give him a copy of "kamasutra".
2006-11-17 22:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by lightvein2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋