I am going through process of divorce. Are there any online groups/forums or places for similar people? How to kill time, and how to stop thinking about your past. I will like to forget about my past, and get busy in my new life. Any suggestions of what I might do to help it. Thanks for your replies to my Q.
2006-11-17 13:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by blore b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish the best of luck. I hope there are no children involved. If there are no children involved you will go through this difficult part but it will be over. TRUST ME. If there are children involved, think about you children and that you will always be there and be a good father for them., In that case it will be a little more difficult. Anyway, answer question, stay online with us answering questions. Have you heard of ORKUT, Orkut is a on line group where you can look for people and find your old friends that you lost touch. Sometimes you can find your childhood friends. If they belong to Orkut. You can make friends in other countries exchange cultural information, post pictures. Try www.orkut.com. Stay busy with your work. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR LIFE AND I HOPE YOU CAN BE HAPPY AGAIN. Remember it is not the end and all this pain will go away.
2006-11-18 05:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Pal,
I deeply understand your concern and the trauma you are undergoing.From what you have written you have not written the cause for your divorce.What happened that you had to take such a drastic action?
Anyway- The fact of life is You do not want to forget your past -yep I/m right pal,ask yourself this question with complete sincerity and you will hear the answer from inside.You are only looking at tools or means to escape the "TRUTH"of your life - BE WITH IT -ITS TOUGH-Allow it consume you and you will flow from your past into present.Stay there, observe your self , understand things in the right perspective and give new meaning to your life.More you fight your past more stronger it will become , the thoughts that are disturbing you -BE WITH IT- TRUTH OF THE MOMENT-NOTHING CAN BE DONE -ACCEPT IT WITH SMILE - AND SAY IAM A HUMAN THIS HAPPENS - SMILE AGAIN- LET ME SEE WHAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER .Do this early morning breathing exercise and .......
Parting is easy dear,its staying together is your real challenge,pray,meditate and enjoy the PRESENT MOMENTS god has given you. Maazhi ko maazhi rehne do , use aaj mein na lao- Naseruddinshah- gulzar saab- Ijazat movie - go watch it and mail me
take care- au revoir
s9consulting
2006-11-18 00:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by s9consulting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the solution to your problem, just keep yourself busy answering questions here and I'm sure you will forget your past, if you spend 5 or 6 hours daily..âº
2006-11-17 14:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for life becoming busy there need not be any forums
u enjoy in ur profession.
or change a good job.
2006-11-17 18:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://dir.groups.yahoo.com/dir/Romance___Relationships/Relationships/Divorce?st=20&show_groups=1
I would like to say that divorce is the same everywhere but in India it is not. Please keep moving forward. Study and learn. It will keep your mind active and that keeps the body active.
2006-11-17 14:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by ஐAldaஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult some good lawyer
2006-11-17 16:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋