I love my husband weve only been married 5 months and he is already looking to have sex with other females.. I know I need to leave but Im so in love that it hurts! I know already love is not suppose to hurt.. but I feel paralyzed ...I have the opportunity to leave.. I have spoken to him about the issues and he will stop texting one female and start with another! I believe he is a sex addict...I love having sex too but just with him...How do I get the "balls" to walk away!
2006-11-17 10:57:40 · 11 answers · asked by Loving life! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick him in his balls....good grief. He's obviously not true to you, don't beat yourself up and give yourself a little credit. You don't need him. DOn't waste time on him.
2006-11-17 11:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 16:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do love him, try getting him into counseling. Tell him you'll go with him and support and help him. He quite possibly could be a sex addict, which will take time and help to control or cure his mind set. It might just be that maybe he does not love you enough to have gotten married to you, which hurts very deep and will hurt you more than him obviously, but you cannot control ANYONE but yourself, right? I am curious as to why him wanting to bed other women does not bother you????????????
2006-11-17 11:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Batracer04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do it... Call a friend, and go stay with her for a little while. Love CAN hurt, but it gets better with time. Trust me, you will be grateful you walked out when you did. Find someone who can help you out at first, it's not easy to go through it on your own.
2006-11-17 11:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would u love someone who u know is wanting other's? u have already confronted him, and told him exacly how u feel, and he continues to do the same old things. the longer u stay with him investing time and love, the more time u waste in discovering a life that will be forfilling. in a marriage we have to feel special and loved, we have to feel safe, there is nothing safe about a husband who u know is wanting or seeing others,not to mention how it could affect your health. he is putting u in harms way sleeping with others.
2006-11-17 11:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think of it this way. if he goes out and has sex with another girl comes home to you and has sex with you. what could he have just given you??? so now you got more than just balls to worry about, you have std that would be enough for me to say bye bye.
2006-11-17 11:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sence you are not into this kind of relationship , I would tell him that the biggest turn off for you is another woman in the picture. Most men listen to this an don't want to do something that completely turns you off.
2006-11-17 11:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU JUST DO SWEETIE. LATER YOU WILL SEE HOW GLAD YOU WERE YOU DID. HOPE THERE IS NO CHILDREN INVOLVE. TAKE YOUR PURSE AND MAYBE A CHANGE OF CLOSE AND START WALKING. MEN LIKE THIS DESERVE NO SECOND CHANCE. IT'S ONLY BEEN FIVE MONTHS AND HE IS ALREADY SHOWING THIS BEHAVIOR, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT A YEAR FROM NOW!!!
2006-11-17 11:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say no one can really tell you when or how to leave....you need to search deep in your soul for the answer.
2006-11-17 11:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You best be getting them soon before he gives you an STD
2006-11-17 11:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋