Firstly, you dont know he doesnt sleep with his wife...he is only telling you that. Secondly, you must not be happy in your marriage to be attracted to this man. I think you have 2 choices. Get some marriage guidance counselling and see if you cant get your feelings back for your husband. Or leave him. You should not leave a man for another man. You should leave because you are not happy. When you are free, then maybe you should look at being with a man. It's your life, and I I know what its like to be attracted to someone you shouldnt be, and your feelings are the only ones you know. No-one can really tell you what to do because they are not feeling what you are. I think before you do anything you and this man should sit down and have a really good talk. Find out what his real situation is, e.g....will he ever leave his wife? Take your time, dont rush into anything. See if this guy is genuine before you even think about being with him. Just be very sure you want your marriage to be over if you do. Good luck.
2006-11-17 11:03:45
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answered by rightio 6
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First off how much older than you are we talking ?? He may just be flirting with you to give himself an ego boost, it could be quite innocent on his part. Although that doesn't make it right especially as you are both married.Please don't throw your marriage away for this man, it is not worth all the heartache and pain you will eventually go through. Don't you love your husband ?? Think of that next time this man flirts with you and hopefully you will make the right choice. Beside his line about not sleeping with his wife is an old one. Think about it before you do anything you will regret for the rest of your life.
2006-11-17 11:13:47
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answered by kazzadanni 4
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Move on please......my own dad is a big flirt with all the women he meets and he him self has not sleep with my mom for over 33 years. And he is quick to let people know this as well. But he has not nor will he ever sleep with any body that he has told this to. He has not ever cheated on my mom not once in the 55 years that they have been together. And no he is not a pervert either, that is just the way he is. He has no clue as to why mom stopped sleeping with him when he turned 40 but I do know and never will tell him either. And no mom has never cheated on him either.
2006-11-17 11:40:36
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answered by SapphireB 6
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When a older married man lets you know he doesn't sleep with his wife what does this mean?
Translation: he is a liar. Trust me hon. He is lying through his cheap suit. And when he gets done lying to you, he will find another woman to lie to. He ain't leaving her. He is sleeping with her. He is not meant to be your man. You are meant to grow some backbone, stand up straight and tall, laugh in his face and run, don't walk away from this dult. You are so much better than being the backroom broad to a married man who plays around. You deserve a real man, and a real relationship. Throw this guy to the curb fast.
2006-11-17 11:22:12
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answered by the witch 4
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He is trying it on with you come on grow up. you should move on you are better than a man like him. He will never leave his wife for you and as for does'nt sleep with his wife that is a very old cliche. If you are not happy in the relationship you are in then do something about that first but don't think that this man is the answer to your dreams.Tell him poliitely to back off and find out why you feel like running away with him or really why you feel like running away from the position you are in now
2006-11-17 11:06:48
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answered by ann jo 3
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This is the oldest line in the book, trust me I would bet an elephant to a fat guy that he is still sleeping with his wife. He also wants to sleep with you. Do not disrespect his wife or yourself by falling for this crap. As for your feeling like throwing it all away, maybe you should concentrate on your marriage and leave the other married people alone. Not trying to sound ugly but this is just how I see it.
2006-11-17 11:49:35
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answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5
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Perfectly normal to be attracted to someone. The real question is whether or not to act on the attraction. If you are in a bad marriage, then get out. Cheating on your spouse will only make you feel worse about yourself. TRUST ME. I've been there and made the mistake of giving in to what I felt rather than listening to the voice of reason that told me to "get a grip". Marriage and relationships are complicated enough, cheating will only serve to complicate it further.
2006-11-17 12:11:30
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answered by Anonymous
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You should move on dear. It is wrong to commit adultery. God made you for your husband and you for him. If in the beginning he was great, why is not he great for you now? I believe that no matter what you go through that you should remain faithful. If there's a problem you two need to talk it out. As for the other guy you think was meant for you, he needs to do the same thing. It hurts being hurt so why hurt your spouse? You need to think about this and ask God for strenght to leave that other guy alone. God bless you.
2006-11-17 13:03:02
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answered by tfjfiggers 2
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Move on! You would feel bad for the rest of your life for sleeping with someones Husband. Who cares if hes not getting laid, thats his own problem, he can go beat off. Why risk all the drama involed if his Wife found out you guys slept together? Think about that.
2006-11-17 11:12:38
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answered by Loca 3
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Yeah, love and lust and infatuation can really f**K up your life. Did you know that the same areas of the brain are active in crazy people and people in love. Endorphins, hormones, all of it is very overwhelming, but they don't have to clean up the mess you will make of multiple lives. Besides the fact that this horny old man may want to play slap and tickle with you and still stay with his wife, no matter what he tells you. My dad gave all of his girls great advice when he reminded us that a man will say anything to get what he wants.
2006-11-17 11:01:58
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answered by ape2016 5
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