if a couple separate on wife's demand of we need space does hubby assume infidelity?

Question

wife told husband he needs to grow up and get his lfe together so leave does anyone think she could be seeing someone else after becoming husbands bestfreiends ,friend

Answer 1

Face it, she's porking your so-called friend. Normally if a woman cheats on a man it's because he's a jerk. Clean up your act. Take responsibility for your own faults and work on them. Assuming there are no children in the mix, move on. If there are children, fight for your marriage and kids.

Answer 2

Possible...BUT I believe that a door must be opened for someone to walk thru it....why did she open the door? Better she separate from you and find out. If she has issues with your role as a husband, there should have been signs/arguments before now---perhaps you were not in tune and missed her cues while your 'friend' found an 'opportunity'. Doesn't say much for your friend---but I have known women to seek another male's opinion when conflicted and if she is vulnerable-----and the friend is interested, anything could happen...have you tried counseling?
And you are not at her beck and call---if you want her to commit----you could end up divorced OR she could not want the marriage over and will compormise toward rebuilding---BUT if she's not willing, or interested in you and the commitment---its OVER/

Answer 3

You lost me there at the end, so do you want to try that one again, please.

But for the part that I think I understood, no he don't need to assume infidelity at all. When she told him that he needed to grow up and get his life together, that could have meant that maybe he spends more time with his friends or something than spending any time with her. He might not be showing her that he loves her and being affectionate with her. I don't think that she is cheating on him either. But that last part about the friend and best friend...I have no clue as to what you are talking about there at all.

Answer 4

If your wife is telling you , you need to grow up then more then likely you have been acting very jealous and immature and insecure threw out your marriage and she is tired of all the crap you say and do for nothing!..

Maybe she left for the reason you just said! You need to grow up...

Answer 5

she is having or planning an affair with the best friend, so she finds falt with hubby to find reason to get him to leave. she is the one who needs to get her life together, she is cheating, so just don't leave, stay in the house, while continuring to work on your marriage, but know that these complaints she has may or may not be valid, when people cheat or they are planning to they often find falt with their spouses so they can justify their own misdeeds. i wouldn't leave my home if i valued my wife, and family. he just wants to be with her, and as long as your there it's a problem. and they can't do as they want. she will tell u whatever she can to hurt u to get u to leave so she can be free to cheat with him.

Answer 6

Anything is possible however if she thinks he needs to grow up then that would be a good reason to seperate. Lack of trust would be another reason.

Answer 7

I would says yes. There is probably something going on there and she doesn't want to "cheat" on you. So she separates and does it instead.

Answer 8

Dude WAKE UP. She is screwing your friend. Women are like monkeys, they don't let go of one branch until they have ahold of another.

Answer 9

Well maybe, but most importantly you need to ask her..Good luck

Answer 10

what...I am kinda lost here. but sure she could be makin' an excuse. there is not really enough detail in your question.