Marriage & Divorce - 15 November 2006

Do women want there sons to be treated like there ex spouses when they grow up 25 years from now ?

Your son pays his child support and is diligent in paying it .
Yet society criticizes him at every turn .

2006-11-15 13:35:27 · 3 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

I was one of those late bloomers. Clumsy, zits, no athletic ability. I've had less girlfriends than I can count on one hand. One of those girlfriends who I met when I was 17, I ended up marrying. Today, though, I am not the same person. After braces, some corrective jaw surgery, an MBA, an understanding of nutrition, and an intense 5-day a week workout schedule, I'm what you might call a good catch. I'm not that shy teenager anymore. And I've learned to actually look at women and notice - some pretty attractive ones are checking me out.

The problem is that I love my wife - truly and deeply but flirting around is such a testosterone buzz!!! I asked this question earlier:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Am8hwmUFhy0diwdowZ64wNHsy6IX?qid=20061115170722AAzBXyr

and the consensus is I haven't cheated on my wife. Is there a happy medium? Can I still somehow experience the single man life (and boost my self esteem) or does marriage have to = testosterone death?

2006-11-15 13:31:42 · 31 answers · asked by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4

Here's my problem my wife left me? And I want her back.
I went to find her well I found her, with a friend of the family. She wouldn't talk to me.
A couple a of days passed and she tells
me that I didn't respect her and I didn't treat her like an adult.And that I was to controlling. Everything was fine till 6 days ago she said nothing was planned. Looking back on events I was. I admit to my mistakes can I get her to forgive me?? And get the love of my life back.

2006-11-15 13:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by lostinthought 1

She claims she did it, I wonder how

2006-11-15 13:28:35 · 10 answers · asked by rhodes6505 1

smegma when they themselves produce it. thats right ladies. you have it too in the labia crevice. us men just dont say anything. but you women seem so eager to point out that we have it.

2006-11-15 13:27:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a nutshell here's the deal:
My husband's brother's birthday party was a few weeks ago, at a local karaoke bar. While we were at the party my brother in law's ex-girlfriend called me and asked if it would be okay if she stopped by the party to say hi.
I said "Well, I guess so. Let me make sure it's okay" I told my husband she wanted to come by, so he asked his brother's wife if it was okay with her. She said "Yeah, sure." So I told her to come on by.
She stopped by and everybody had a good time.
Now I'm "The Devil" for "inviting" his ex girlfriend to the party. His wife seems to have forgotten that she said it would be okay. We gave her an opportunity to say no and she said yes. She's even convinced herself that the ex-girlfriend gave her husband a lap dance!!! She's insane! The ex-girl sat next to my husband's mother the whole night, so nothing scandalous happened!
Now my sister in law is expecting me to kiss her feet with an apology, and I'm refusing to.
Who'se right here?

2006-11-15 13:22:51 · 15 answers · asked by Chellebelle78 4

I have a husband that won't even say "happy birthday" or "happy anniversary." I don't get any kind of acknowledgment for these days at all. Same for Valentine's day. Nothing. I don't complain about it to him, but sometimes I want to feel special, like I mean something to him. Most of the time I don't feel special at all.

Now I've stopped doing anything for his birthday as well.

Is this normal man behavior? Men's perspective very much appreciated.

Thank you!

2006-11-15 13:20:49 · 17 answers · asked by Vianka 4

what part would you change. No "be happy with what you have" answers please!!!

2006-11-15 13:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 13:19:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweet lovely02 1

It sounds strange, but I just helped someone with a refinance, who gave up hope, and planned to give up her house due to her divorce. She had bad credit and thought It could never happen. I was so excited to make it happen for her. I not only did my job, but helped a human being. I want to find more people who need help with refinance and are in need. It was a nice feeling. So, why do I care? I'm going through a divorce too, so I knew exactly how she was feeling. Thoughts?

2006-11-15 13:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by Herb S 2

My fiance is no good, selfish, and offer no moral, emotional, or financial support for me. I am thinking it would be best to have an abortion so that I don't have to deal with this man anymore and bear the immense burden of raising a child with a dead-beat father.

2006-11-15 13:13:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since california does not recognise common law marriage, if I went with her to a state for a few days which recongises it and signed an affidavit of support would that be applicable for us. I am trying to know this because we can be eligible to tax benefits which helps us as we live together.

2006-11-15 13:06:29 · 5 answers · asked by vishwas_79 1

would single mothers get more child support if society used more carrots and perks rather than the kick em while there down approach for non custodial fathers ?

Took in to account that non custodial fathers can lose there jobs , get sick get disabled .

Take into account Some times noncustodial fathers need to get a pay cut to get to a job that will ultimatley pay them more than what they earn at there present job ?

Take into account being a noncustodial father can feel pretty bleak .

2006-11-15 13:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

2006-11-15 13:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by Ahab 5

At same time she also stares at men in my presence

2006-11-15 12:49:48 · 18 answers · asked by nishnoush 1

What are your opinions on gay marriage?
What do you guys really think its about?
Is it morally wrong or just politically?
Are we really trying to uphold the sacredity of marriage or are we just scared of the unknown?


I AM BIASED ON THIS! DON'T COME AT ME LIKE, blah blah blah you are morally wrong, or blah blah blah you stupid conservative.!
I'M JUST TRYING TO GET ALL OF THE SIDES!

2006-11-15 12:48:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

While does size matters?? I'm 5 1/2 and not really happy with it but thats what God gave me..

2006-11-15 12:47:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The day I was dreading finally arrived - I had to look at my son and tell him it was okay to like Dad's new girlfriend and that I was okay with it. My ex and this woman had absolutely no respect for me, our wedding vows and my family. But I guess that is what being a mother is all about - putting your child's happiness first. But how do I get rid of this sick feeling? Will this nightmare end?

2006-11-15 12:42:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has pissed me off beyond belief...I can't imagine ever having sex with him again. If he cheats or leaves I will be relieved.

2006-11-15 12:41:54 · 18 answers · asked by mrsleslie_lady 3

does a man who is 42 and still married but living with his girlfriend who is 21.........will their age difference effect them or will they be able to have a life

2006-11-15 12:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by kelly h 1

I am married and right now I don't feel settled in my life.

Both my husband and I work very hard and we are living with his family until we relocate.

I feel like a fish out of water because I don't have my own place, I LOVE to entertain and cook and practice hospitality.

My husband does try his best but I have to work in order for us to eat and it takes two income not out of lavishness and extravagance but out of pure neccessity.

January we relocate, what is the best way to make the best of feeling uprooted? I don't feel safe and secure and I have been irritable lately.

I know the marraige vows say for better for worse for richer and poorer in sickness and in health,but sometimes
it is really hard.

2006-11-15 12:35:49 · 3 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

have ever smelled???

2006-11-15 12:33:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him completely, we have known each other since May 2003. His ex really f'''d up his life. We had a really good start to our relationship, I then became ill and he resigned from his business partnership... I am now in a good job and have bought my own place, he is now on the up in his consultancy... I want to have a warm and physical, relationship, but he has become scared of anything physical. He hates me being let down by this and has opened up on occasion. He seems to get his happines from committing to his new business enterprise, his winter activities and his girls, who I have to agree, are the best! He says I deserve better... I say WE deserve better. I understand the need for friendship, but for soo long I thought we had more, and physically for a while we did. I noticed when I used his computer the other day his history had over 300 hits to specific sites, this has left me feeling low in self confidence... He good at putting his head in the sand.. What do I do???

2006-11-15 12:31:38 · 47 answers · asked by wifieinstrife 2

why do blokes do it say hurtful things or cheat, or dont care bout your feelings only think bout their lil friend in their trousers, y do they do it, it really hurts i have yet to find a genuine bloke. please help

2006-11-15 12:29:27 · 4 answers · asked by tamzynsian 1

I am repeating because some people didn't get the questions. This is not about reconciling. This is about whether to FILE now or not.
Everyone I talk with about this has an agenda so I am asking complete strangers for neutral thoughts on this issue. Wow!
Should I file for divorce or are the benefits worth it?
If I file, I lose all health insurance, life insurance and pension rights if something happens to him. He is now paying the mortgage (almost $2000) and all of the tuition for the two kids ($1800) without an argument. He left me and is involved with another woman so it feels that by not filing I am saying that it is OK. My son has cerebral palsy. One marriage is enough so I am not looking to marry again. Any thoughts?

I would like to hear from people with experience. Thanks

2006-11-15 12:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was wondering if there was a certain form for her to fill out at courthouse this is in massachusetts.since were in the same house and back to normal....well hopefully!!!!! he-he
thankyou!!!

2006-11-15 12:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by johnnny805 2

2006-11-15 12:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by simple 1

Everyone I talk with about this has an agenda so I am asking complete strangers for neutral thoughts on this issue. Wow!
Should I file for divorce or are the benefits worth it?
If I file, I lose all health insurance, life insurance and pension rights if something happens to him. He is now paying the mortgage (almost $2000) and all of the tuition for the two kids ($1800) without an argument. He left me and is involved with another woman so it feels that by not filing I am saying that it is OK. My son has cerebral palsy. One marriage is enough so I am not looking to marry again. Any thoughts?

I would like to hear from people with experience. Thanks.

2006-11-15 12:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i realize i married wrong person...i love my husband very much,tough. but we have very different prinsip,lifestyle and opinion about everything..

2006-11-15 12:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by Jovan Lyn 2

This is my delima, I woke up this morning to find my husband on the couch asleep and when i woke him up he said I was calling out another mans name in my sleep. I do not remember any dream and i have assured him that there is no one else or do i want another man. But he is so hurt, I have said im sorry 1000 times today. He says he trust me but why take it to the extreme of getting this irate and even took off his wedding ring. There has never been any cheating with either of us so this is sooo unexpected. Please help serious answers only.

2006-11-15 12:09:24 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2