why dont blokes care when they hurt you?

Question

why do blokes do it say hurtful things or cheat, or dont care bout your feelings only think bout their lil friend in their trousers, y do they do it, it really hurts i have yet to find a genuine bloke. please help

Answer 1

they are selfish, and we put all of our trust and love in people we shouldn't. they don't care if they hurt us, and they say things that completely trash our spirit, because they want to feel justified with the choice that they made, so in their mind they diminish and trash all feelings they had of us, so they won't have to feel the guilt. they aren't the ones with the brokenheart, because they have someone else, they won't know what they did to us, until they walk in our shoes, until they are hurt by someone they love. these types of men have little concience and no emathy towards us, they feel it's not their place, and they share no blame in our brokenhearts. plus they are way too busy with the new love they have found to give us any thought whatsoever. actually these are very selfish men, without too much compassion, and it is best we find out now, than after we married them. maybe next time we will be more selective before we give our hearts away so easily to people we can't trust, who we can't rely on even to treat us fairly.

Answer 2

because...1) women only focus on their own needs and feelings, so we focus on ours 2) you are too sensative and are getting hurt over every little thing, so we tune out 3) guys take responsibility for their own emotional well-being and don't make another person responsible, a trait women would do well to emulate.

Answer 3

all guys are *******. You have to teach them that you are not one of the guys and he needs to talk to you differently and (this is the toughest) THINK BEFORE HE SPEAKS!

Answer 4

What is blokes..