At same time she also stares at men in my presence
2006-11-15 12:49:48 · 18 answers · asked by nishnoush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do that for my husband. We have a very healthy marriage, and we are very happy together. It has nothing to do with being insecure like some of the others have mentioned. I'm secure enough in myself and in my marriage that I don't mind my husband looking at other women, and he doesn't mind me looking at other men. We both know where "our bread is buttered," so to speak. I have been to strip clubs with my husband, and he has been without me, and we occasionally watch porn together. It's one thing to notice and appreciate an attractive person, but it is a totally different thing to ogle and drool over them. Sounds like you have a woman who is very confident in herself. It could be the other way around, you know??? She could be whining and nagging and bit**ing everytime you even blink your eyes or turn your head....THAT is insecurity. Be grateful that she trusts you enough for you to be able to look at other women.
2006-11-15 13:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I do NOT think she is hinting to you that she would like a threesome. This is tricky, but typically this is done by a) Really insecure women b) Secure women with insecure moments.
Part of it is her acknowledging that other females are attractive & by pointing it out first she is trying to prove to you that she is secure in her attractiveness. At the same time she is looking for verbal reassurance from you.
One thing is for sure, if it makes you uncomfortable you need to discuss it with her. Who knows? She might be relieved.
Good luck sweetie.
2006-11-15 13:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all women is not like that and futhermore perhaps she is trying to find you someone else on the cool to terminate the marriage. What other reason will she be scoping out other men and we do not want to say that she is bisexual or nothing but who cn say in this situation. Then again she could be trying to say she wish she could look pretty like those women and what can one say there are lots of options to look at.
2006-11-15 13:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes point out girls who I think are really pretty to my husband, but I just think that's something women are more comfortable doing. but I don't check out other men in front of him or behind his back, that's just not right. I think you should talk to your wife about this because it's obviously bothering you and I imagine confusing you too.
when I point out a pretty girl to my husband I'm not doing it so he can check her out, I usually do it because I like her hair or what she's wearing, and want his opinion about whether or not he thinks that would look good on me. that's just me being me.
I guess what I'm saying is that No, all women are not like your wife.
2006-11-15 13:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should could just be doing it to give her an excuse to look at other men. If she can get you to look and lust after beautiful women, it may make her feel not as guilty and gives her an excuse to do so as well.
2006-11-15 12:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think she is a little insecure. You need to discuss it with her. If it bothers you, you have to talk about it. Getting it out there is the first step in making thinks right for the two of you. YOU ARE MARRIED!
2006-11-15 12:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Evelynne B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I never look at other men- ever. And I certainly don't show my husband attractive women, in fact, most women hate this.
2006-11-15 14:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to look at the women so that she has permission to look at the guys without feeling guilty. BEWARE. This could be the first step in the wrong direction. OR she could have lesbian tendencies.
2006-11-15 12:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I'm married and I do the same thing. Part of it is appreciation of the female body - and part of it is pointing them out before he starts gawking.
2006-11-15 13:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truely unsure why she's pointing them out...it's a trap!!
If she's discussed other women with you, then maybe she's shopping too.
2006-11-15 12:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋