Someone Help!!!!?

Question

Here's my problem my wife left me? And I want her back.
I went to find her well I found her, with a friend of the family. She wouldn't talk to me.
A couple a of days passed and she tells
me that I didn't respect her and I didn't treat her like an adult.And that I was to controlling. Everything was fine till 6 days ago she said nothing was planned. Looking back on events I was. I admit to my mistakes can I get her to forgive me?? And get the love of my life back.

Answer 1

Give her time and space to think. Let her know you love her but also let her know you will not wait forever that if she doesn't come back soon you will move on with your life. It doesn't sound like there was very much going on to cause the problem more like she was feeling out of control of her own life. Let her take on more responsibility and respect her choices. Try involving her in decision making and let her feel in control part of the time and she will feel loved and respected.
~Best of Luck~

Answer 2

Can you really admit your mistakes? Could you sit down and say okay I did this and that. If you can do that then you need to go to her and be like I know I did this and upset you, etc. From experiance, if you can't name your poroblems and at least some of what you did she probably won't take you. When I left my ex husband for the same thing he couldn't even figure out how he was being wrong. So I looked at him and said well how can you sit here and say you know you did wrong but don't know how. If he could've at least told what he did it might've helped, but he couldn't so in my mind I didn't think he could change. She might be thinking the same thing. If you could at least say you know what you did wrong to make her feel that way, maybe she'll give you another chance because you might actually change. Good luck

Answer 3

if she still loves you you can. and if you mean business and get controll of yourself and stop being so controlling . I mean within limits if she wants to go out and have an affair naturally you have to be strong there but dont' control her so much she feels imprisoned or she can't make decisions and you keep slappintg them all down that will show you don't respect her and her decisions and woman wants to feel she is part of the marriage not a baby breeder and a cleaning lady. treat her special. and let her know you will definately change and mean it.

good luck

Answer 4

If you really loved your wife...wouldn't you hae treated her like a queen every waking moment? That's just something I want to ask...
Okay, well, if you want to get your wife back, here's what I'd do. Try to get to talk to her face-to-face and talk to her...
You know that you did wrong (whatever it was) and you're willing to do anything to get her back...
Dont forget that she needs some thinking space too...it's not going to happen like, in the movies y'know? If you really messed this up, I wish you some luck...
We're all human and made to make some mistakes...but remember too that all mistakes shouldn't be forgiven...
But think it over, and I hope I helped...

Answer 5

Just try and talk to her and tell her how you feel, tell her that you are human and made a mistake, that you love her and will change for her......I will pray....Heavenly Father I ask that you would show popeye what to do regarding his wife's situation. Please work in his wife's heart to do the right thing in reguards to their marriage.....in Jesus name amen

Answer 6

it is possible but you have to be patient
She will know that she misses you with in a week or two
(IF SHE MISSES YOU AT ALL)
It is also possible that you are too much of those things for her but in any case what is meant to be will be

Answer 7

i am so sorry but i am only a kid......i would not know about love.
good luck though

Answer 8

Show her that you are changing!!

Answer 9

have no clue