Marriage & Divorce - 15 November 2006

I'm married to a cheater...a player..a snake...and I have a baby. I'm not poor but I need to move out ASAP. I can save my money in 2 months and leave but I prefer to find a way out now. My friends have their own relationships and/or kids and my mom has a full house. Are their programs for women needing to get out sooner rather than later?

2006-11-15 05:10:37 · 23 answers · asked by Lady 2

she worked with this guy and she talked about him all the time,said he was funny,crazy,sat with him at breaks,etc... never thought much about it until she told me one day that this guy told people at work that she cornered him in the parking lot after work,she denied it,but later told me they were talking in the parking lot about a promotion he might get, she worked late hours so i have no idea how long they were out there,although he told people they were out there for three hours,my wife says only one hour at the most! she said it was just rumors and he was lying,but i threatened to go to this guy and find out myself,thats when she told me she asked him out for a drink,she said she was just joking and wanted to know why he was out there, well i dont know who to belive, all i know is she was in a parking lot with another man for at least an hour instead of coming home to her family. can anyone make sense of this?

2006-11-15 05:10:15 · 17 answers · asked by birdman 1

My wife and I have been together for over 8 years with 2 great kids. Like any man or woman in a relationship I've made mistakes. My wife says "I forgive you but I wont forget!" Is that truly forgiveness or is she just kidding herself? Its not like I have ever cheated on her or anything, just the same goof ups that happen in an eight year relationship. After all its not like she is an angel either but I have forgave AND FORGOT her mistakes. Is she really being fair if she "forgives but doesnt forget?" I'm afraid her attitude is quickly heading us into divorce. Please, I need some unbiased opinions.

2006-11-15 05:01:17 · 31 answers · asked by Mike S 1

A man cheats on his wife with a woman he told he was already divorce. she believes him and starts to date him .He looks for an apartment to impress the woman who is being evicted from her apt. .he tells her Is 3 bedrooms so we can move together.All along the woman's 16 year old daughter see through him and do not want him,some thing the woman ignores.All along he is hiding ,that he is married .He walk out on his family,the wife filed for divorce,the divorce takes a whole year ,the other woman gets pregnant and have no idea what he is hidding,she thinks he is been free for about 2 years and he makes her daughter's life imposible to the point of convincing her mother to send her to the jobs corps away from the house.Now the woman thinks that something is wrong due to his behavior.And now the daughter has discover everything through his dauther who wants nothing to do with her father for what he has done.All of his lies are on the open with all the nesesary proves .

2006-11-15 04:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by Alijoy 1

Me and my husband always have a joke about this.. but what do guys really think about modern woman??who stand up for what right, and take what is hers?

2006-11-15 04:55:05 · 29 answers · asked by Cess B 2

I am going to be getting home a little late tonight. My wife will already be home. I have some tine to prepare the house, or bedroom, before I leave. Any suggestions on what I should do to prepare? i.e. Set out candles, love note, lingerie, find something for me to wear, etc.... Thanks for your suggestions!

2006-11-15 04:53:19 · 33 answers · asked by MLJ 1

He will wait until the absolute last second to take care of stuff. Our 5 year old daughter wasn't on dental insurance for 2 years because he'd never get the paperwork turned in in time. So it cost us even more!! Finally today he's turned it in, but it is the last day they will accept. There is to much to list - that's just today. He says he wants a new palm pilot, blackberry, whatever for Christmas because that's where he keeps track of what he needs done..........but I don't want to spend lots of money on something he thinks helps him but really doesn't. Does anyone know how to take care of my last minute to the second problem (without causing a fight?)

2006-11-15 04:51:51 · 7 answers · asked by cakelady 3

i broke up with my gf some mnths ago and used to have best sex ever with her. but my new gf seems so dumb and low without any kinda passion. she acts like an innocent angel. and i starting to get annoyed by her caring and overwhelmingly sweet style of relationship.

i have lost my own interest as well now and cant seem to do as passionately as i did with my ex gf. i want to remain same way as before what should i do? will this relationship affect my future relationships if i break up?

i feel scared about not having that kind of love making ability again until i find a real wild woman.

2006-11-15 04:47:00 · 17 answers · asked by Going down 1

2006-11-15 04:46:18 · 26 answers · asked by Racerjsn 1

2006-11-15 04:43:33 · 15 answers · asked by LJHL 2

I have been divorced since last May, 2006. My ex-husband emailed me about a month ago to inform me of his new girlfriend and that they are serious. This woman has met our 3 year old son several times and interacted with him. I think that I should meet her. My ex-husband says that is not necessary and said he will not allow that right now. I'm not trying to stick my nose in where it doesn't belong, but I feel I have the right to know who is interacting with my son, especially if this relationship is as serious as my ex says it is. Does anyone know of any research related to this topic?

2006-11-15 04:40:17 · 19 answers · asked by musicalguitar15 1

2006-11-15 04:38:08 · 16 answers · asked by LJHL 2

2006-11-15 04:31:16 · 17 answers · asked by Zahro k 1

Ok after reading my story most of you will probably say run and never look back, but it is deeper then that, atleast for me anyway. My wife recently had an affair, it lasted for about 5 month, mostly emotional, but they did have sex, what she is claiming only three times. The plot thickens, she is pregnant and both of us are lead to believe it is not mine. We have a seven year old daughter together that with out a doubt is mine. This new baby, if not mine, will look nothing like me becuase of the ethnicity of the other guy. My wife once caught made a full confession and said she was caught up in the moment and all the attention given to her. The affair has been broken off months ago and we are still in contact with each other. This is very difficult for me to deal with and I am unable to come up with the right answers. All of my family is telling be that I am crazy for even considering going back and I am not sure if I could even go back, but there is still something there.

2006-11-15 04:30:10 · 24 answers · asked by cheeks230 3

2006-11-15 04:29:57 · 55 answers · asked by Isabelle 3

Should I file for divorce or are the benefits worth it?
If I file, I lose all health insurance, life insurance and pension rights if something happens to him. He is now paying the mortgage (almost $2000) and all of the tuition for the two kids ($1800) without an argument. He left me and is involved with another woman so it feels that by not filing I am saying that it is OK. One marriage is enough so I am not looking to marry again. Any thoughts? One child is disabled. They are both under 8 years old.

2006-11-15 04:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he always wanted me to spend a night at his place and know i have the oppotunaty, we are no longer together but if he doesn''t have a girlfreind and says yes i would go not to get back together but more for the experince of finally spending a night with him.

the problem is more likely his answer would be no we were friends even though we broke up until to two weeks ago. i lent him $500 and he did not want to give it back to me honestly his words were u will have to take me to ourt to get it back so i made a scene in public and ended up hitting him numerous times but he called after that

2006-11-15 04:28:20 · 4 answers · asked by jules 3

2006-11-15 04:27:42 · 7 answers · asked by atom 2

2006-11-15 04:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by Mark K 1

Okay... so my boyfriend told me that he has been thinking about proposing to me, but he hasn't found a ring yet and says that he won't until he has one. I told he that the ring is not what makes a proposal special, it's the proposal itself and that he is willing to make that commitment, and the love of course! Anyway, my question is... what is the deal with not having a ring yet (like why would that stop him), and how soon do you think he will actually do it, considering the holidays are coming up and all?

2006-11-15 04:26:39 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-15 04:26:10 · 10 answers · asked by olivier1uk 3

Have you? We are trying counciling, and I know it will take some time. Please tell me your experiences, I really need help with this, I am willing to try to work it out but I feel like an idiot for doing it.

2006-11-15 04:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by nc_hpoa 2

okay, i asked a while ago what i should get for my ex, shes turning 25. people say why are getting her a gift, shes your ex. well, i screwed up. and trying to work things out with her. so i dont really need the advice on my relationship with this girl, just wanted to know what would be a good gift. thats it.

2006-11-15 04:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by mr. clean 1

I mean after divorce/seperation do you miss the closeness you had (I dont mean with that person i mean in general) how do you overcome the loneliness when does the loneliness kicks in?

2006-11-15 04:19:08 · 19 answers · asked by jules 4

Or does it depends on the mood and timing i.e babysitters,emotions e.t.c

2006-11-15 04:08:59 · 64 answers · asked by jules 4

i was just wondering if anyone knew what would be a good gift for my ex, she's turning 25. was thining about buying her flowers and taking her out to a nice dinner, but what does a 25 yr old need?

2006-11-15 04:07:54 · 17 answers · asked by mr. clean 1

i'm v disturbed n hurt by my husband's ex-gal frds calling him 2 offer themselves.he gets upset when they called him n he will take it out on me by insulting n degrading me.i dun deserve any of this as i hv been faithful n honest n forgiving all this while 4 wat hv happened.but i'm no saint,i cant go on letting them "torturing" my life.wat can i do?

2006-11-15 04:03:38 · 26 answers · asked by Oscar 1

Even if the cheater divorces his/her spouse and moves in with the other person - what are the odds of this relationship lasting?

2006-11-15 03:54:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been together for a year with ups and down. i love him very much and i am going to be there for him. i just need a little bit of advice.

2006-11-15 03:45:57 · 48 answers · asked by jolie t 1

so i have been with the same guy for 3 years and every year there is always something i know that he really wants for christmas. he is really into the cardinals and i wanted to get him something to do with them but i am not sure on what to get him..does anyone have an suggestions on what to get a man for christmas? he is 20 years old..please help me!

2006-11-15 03:45:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous