I mean after divorce/seperation do you miss the closeness you had (I dont mean with that person i mean in general) how do you overcome the loneliness when does the loneliness kicks in?
2006-11-15 04:19:08 · 19 answers · asked by jules 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have children and family so i wont be lonely like that only on a personal front for a little while.
2006-11-15 04:26:36 · update #1
yes it can be lonely. it used to drive me nuts when she would cuddle up to me while sleeping, i guess after 4yrs i got used to it. now it sucks not having that. its the dumb little things. we used to set and make fun of people on the news or T.V. in general. the 1st 4months i would say something and turn to get her reaction, and she wasn't there.
there r good things though.
no more
fighting
lieing
cheating
no more pain
2006-11-15 16:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The loneliness can take some time to kick in, it's all very different at first. Christmas can be a very lonely time but if you have children it can soften the blow.
You'll be told by people to go out and make sure you're always with others but sometimes you can feel more lonely and isolated in a large group than being alone if others are happy and in couples when you're alone!
Don't rush into another relationship until you really know who you now are and what you now want in life. You will have changed during your marriage and need some time to rediscover yourself.
Enjoy this time you have to yourself and spend any down time on self indulgence such as long baths and facials - this will ensure you are at your best when you are ready to move on.
All the best x
2006-11-15 04:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it gets lonely at times... But there are a lot of benefits about being single - like having the house to oneself or being able to do anything one wants without worrying about what to cook for dinner; it's kinda relaxing actually. I didn't mind being single, really - although in the long run my goal has always been to have a family. The way I used to "get over" the loneliness would be hanging out with friends, reading, dating, videogames, taking care of my pets, writing a journal.
2006-11-15 04:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single and living alone is a choice that an ever-increasing number of people are choosing these days - because they prefer it and can afford it. It's not for everyone - but you also shouldn't assume that, even if you imagine yourself being lonely in that situation, everyone who is single must be unfulfilled.
On the Myers-Briggs scale, they conclude that if you are an (I)ntrovert, you lose energy being around people - while (E)xtroverts gain energy by being social. You can probably figure out which one is closer to the truth for you. And there are certainly plenty of examples where even an (E) would be far better off alone than stuck in an unfulfilling (or worse) relationship.
2006-11-15 09:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by mizerock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend every minute of the waking day together then the loneliness is quick to come.
I personally feel that divorce and separation are too much of an easy option nowadays, there are very few problems (unless its adultery) that can't be worked out easily.
I would advise going to a marriage councellor and see if they can help...if your marriage can be saved it would be better for your kids instead of sensing hatred etc between mum and dad.
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2016-04-13 04:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends who we are and our state of mind and circumstances. It can be lonely, but it can also be liberating. No one to nag you. What joy! I think too many people settle with what they think is their other half of the apple, only to find the two halves don't match and before they know it.....the apple is rotton to the core!! Besides some people can be lonely in a crowd, even if they are in a 'relationship'.
2006-11-15 04:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Sparticus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But after a while you get a sense of freedom that you've been missing. It's still lonely though especially as xmas.
2006-11-15 04:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Misha-non-penguin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you can be lonely being single are being in a bad marriage.
You need to get in touch with your passions and follow them to keep your mind off of this time in your life.
2006-11-15 04:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be just as lonely in a crowd as you would home by yourself. Get to know yourself again. There have to have been some things that you wanted to do that you couldn't because your spouse wasn't interested. Explore those interests, enjoy yourself.
2006-11-15 04:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋