A man cheats on his wife with a woman he told he was already divorce. she believes him and starts to date him .He looks for an apartment to impress the woman who is being evicted from her apt. .he tells her Is 3 bedrooms so we can move together.All along the woman's 16 year old daughter see through him and do not want him,some thing the woman ignores.All along he is hiding ,that he is married .He walk out on his family,the wife filed for divorce,the divorce takes a whole year ,the other woman gets pregnant and have no idea what he is hidding,she thinks he is been free for about 2 years and he makes her daughter's life imposible to the point of convincing her mother to send her to the jobs corps away from the house.Now the woman thinks that something is wrong due to his behavior.And now the daughter has discover everything through his dauther who wants nothing to do with her father for what he has done.All of his lies are on the open with all the nesesary proves .
2006-11-15 04:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by Alijoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he doesn't have a super explaination for all that, you need to Run, run as fast as you can. He is obviously a liar and cheater and probably won't change. Deceit is just a fancy word for lieing. He surely had or has had opportunity to come clean. It's up to you but to me, you would save yourself alot of trouble and leave the relationship.
2006-11-15 05:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! If a man lies to you about being married what makes you think he is going to be faithful and honest to you now? If he hasn't come clean to you about all of this and you some how miraculously found out through probing or via other people...he cannot be trusted.
You should confront him to find out the whole truth about the situation and run like hell away from it.
Deep down inside you we really know what we should do about relationships we just wait for someone to come along and justify us not doing it so that we don't have to deal with the pain of facing the truth.
Search your heart, you know that you need to leave and don't let anyone else tell you differently.
2006-11-15 13:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by angelndysqyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is do YOU think it will survive? First i would think to myself if i found all of this out.... if he did this to his first wife, could he do this to me if we are to marry. do you trust this man. he abandoned his other family for lust and maybe love, but he lied to the other and hid this secret which a very big secret. i've been married once, my ex cheated on me, we tried to work it our, but he just kept cheating. i found someone else and he the greatest and i just tell myslef that it was a learning lesson and i just didn't wait long enough the first time to see that i could have done better. My second marriage is the best. decide how YOU feel about it and discuss this with him and then go from there. hope this helps good luck
2006-11-15 13:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by AnneeMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated to be with her, he will probably cheat on her.
I don't understand how folks can see someone display poor character and think that their relationship with the cheater will be different.
It's only possible if the cheater's character is really changed, and the cheater remains consistent in the pursuit of truth and honororable behavior.
If he doesn't feel he was wrong, he will do the same thing again.
2006-11-15 13:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything was there for old dummy to see from the start. One lie after another and old dummy will probably be back with him, telling herself that everything is out in the open, so he must love me, forgetting about all the lying and cheating and putting a wedge between her daughter and herself. Sister girl grow-up you got children who need your full attention and you don't have no time for all that bull drama.
2006-11-15 13:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as this man does not walk out on #2 yes because she seems to keep her head buried in the sand not caring to find out the truth up front. Now that she knows she should be devasted angry upset. I think she is just looking for a security blanket so will be willing to tolerate his nonsense. Again yes it will unless he walks out on her
2006-11-15 13:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless some radical changes happens in the cheater, no it will not survive because the cheater will find someone to cheat on the new wife with.
2006-11-15 13:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. Some women will put up with just about anything. This one started shacking up with a man out of wedlock with her child witnessing, then gets pregnant, and then banishes her daughter. Why would she let his lie interfere with her set-up?
2006-11-15 13:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The woman in the story sounds like a loser and a dumba**, sorry. He couldn't have duped her so thoroughly if she wasn't all too willing to be duped. But some people are just THAT desperate I guess.
2006-11-15 13:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. The odds are way, way against it.
What happened to the previous wife will most likely happen to the new one.
Hmm. Which character do YOU play in this scenario?
2006-11-15 13:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋