Do relationships started in adultery last?

Question

Even if the cheater divorces his/her spouse and moves in with the other person - what are the odds of this relationship lasting?

Answer 1

You are already asking will he cheat on me too. You bet. Once a cheater, always a cheater, what makes you think he will be faithful to you. When the fire of the what I should not do dies down, he will be bored and look for greener pastures. He is a liar , a thief and a cheat , he stole the love of another person , he lies to keep it all going and he is a cheater, so you really don't have much of a person anyway. A faithful person sticks with you know matter what and that shows real character not , the one that only stays during the good times . Think what you are doing and he is doing . Do you think he will be true to you or you to him. That is what you told your other spouse . You are lying to yourself and fooling only you with another lie , like we are just friends when you are having an affair. That is the only way you can live with yourself . Grow up and look what you have done to lots of people when you cheat. Your new life will be effective by what you have done in your past. What goes around comes around

Answer 2

Considering the odds against a "healthy" marriage lasting, I'd say they aren't very good. However, it depends on the people and their individual situations. I know enough people who met under "questionable" conditions who, against all odds, are still happily married.

Since marriage should be based on love and respect, starting off with someone who obviously didn't "love and respect" their previous spouse, doesn't seem like the "ideal". But I don't think it's as "black and white" as that.

Haven't we all seen people who seem to be "perfect" together that end up divorcing each other? Then there's the people who seem to do everything "wrong" and still make it work.

If the "experts" can't seem to figure out what makes one marriage "work" while another "fails", I'm certainly not going to try!

Answer 3

I believe that they can last. I left my husband a little over 2 years ago on the hope that I would have a chance to date the man I liked. Well it worked and we're now living together and very happy. I did cheat on my husband to be with my current sweetie and it was the best decision I've ever made. Sometimes you just have to take a chance and in my case I'm so glad I did. I would never cheat on my boyfriend now and I never cheated on any previous boyfriends; I don't believe that just because our relationship started on an 'adulterous' foot it will end that way. Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side...you just have to take the chance to find out. I know that my boyfriend is going to be my husband one day and I would never do anything to jeopardize my relationship....I truly believe that regardless of how a relationship starts it can last forever if you love and respect the person you're with.

Answer 4

Usually the odds are very low, however, my mom and stepdad are living proof that it's not always the case. My mom had an affair with her boss when I was 10 years old and left my dad to be with him. While she was wrong to have an affair, it's probably the best thing that ever happened to our family. She and my stepdad have been married for over 25 years now and are still as happy as the day they married. Neither of them, to my knowledge, has ever cheated on the other one. They have a very solid and loving relationship so yah, it CAN last! It took a lot of hard work for them though because their relationship started out as a lie. They had to reassure one another and really establish long-term trust.

Answer 5

nicely, i'm lifeless set against adultery. . . been the sufferer of it and permit me tell ya, it sucked greater suitable than something i've got ever experienced, and that i've got been by way of a rather good variety of no longer so good issues (considerable well being issues suitable around the time the fling befell). we've spent many, some years repairing the wear and tear from one week of carelessness on my husband's section. Judgement aside, it rather relies upon on why the adultery befell by utilising whomever became the adulterer. became it the only and in effortless terms time this individual strayed, and what became happening in the marriage to start up with to reason that individual to look someplace else? i'm no longer non secular, so i will't say no rely if or no longer God would bless the relationship. . . i assume if the two events in touch in the affair have been relatively sorry for hurting and betraying the have confidence of the better half who have been given cheated on, then possibly He would forgive the adulterer for his or her errors. so some distance because it lasting? back, maximum relationships that have been formed by utilising adultery in all threat don't have very stable odds, yet i will supply you one extremely beneficial occasion. My husband's chum cheated on his spouse along with her perfect chum. This guy would desire to no longer shop it in his pants, and his spouse ended up divorcing him. After seven or so years of relationship the perfect chum (whilst no longer being trustworthy to her the two), she found out she became pregnant. They moved in mutually and had a toddler that they the two love dearly, and have self belief it or no longer, i think of it has replaced him. . . . a minimum of in the intervening time. I only think of that no rely if that's a repeated development of cheating from a individual, then the possibilities are not so stable. If this became the only and in effortless terms affair this individual had, the marriage ended and that they have got remained trustworthy to the recent better half, i'd say there is a few wish. yet in my view, i'd continuously be frightened that they might cheat back. stable success to you--I rather choose you nicely.

Answer 6

I can state from experience that when an adulterous relationship ends a marriage and results in that couple becoming a "couple" the relationship, if based on more than sex, can be wonderful and last. However, know that there will always be a "trust" issue between you both, even though you truly love each other the thought will always be "if you cheated with me, you will cheat on me." Best of luck!

Answer 7

It happens but I wouldn't take someone that was cheating on someone else. Just a trust thing for me I guess. However, I have seen married co-workers cheat on their spouses, leave them, get married to each other and live happily ever after. Go figure...management! But I guess that was 2 cheaters coming together, not one single person and one cheater.

Answer 8

I have a dear friend that is now married very happily to the woman he cheated with. As soon as his divorce was final and they were allowed to by law(waiting period) they married. That was eight years ago. They are wonderful together, and have 2 beautiful and healthy children. But to be frank with you I believe they are the exception rather than the rule.

Answer 9

Every relationship is different. Yes it could last a life time if they were really meant for each other and the x-relationship wasn't, or it could happen again and it not work out.

Only those 2 people will know if they want a life time relationship or not.

Answer 10

Check out divorce court or the show cheaters and you tell me.

Alex