2006-11-15 04:27:42 · 7 answers · asked by atom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Breakups hurt. Whatever you do don't string it out because it wil hurt more that way.
2006-11-15 04:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur asking for and impossible answer whenever someone u care about breaks up with it will hurt but what u can to is let her down in the easiest way possible and don't say the it not u its me line no one believes that
2006-11-15 12:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. It's going to hurt anyway you do it. Think about it, Dude. That's just impossible. Just be kind and don't do the "let's be friends" thing, or the "it's not you, it's ME" thing. Just tell the person you want out. Period. And take it like a man. You didn't have a problem with that when you wanted "in", now did you? godloveya
2006-11-15 12:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to let you know, but a break up almost ALWAYS involves one or the other being hurt. It's reality. Yeah, it's not fun, but it's still reality.
Open communication. Stay firm (don't weasel). Move on with your life. Let her move on with hers.
Good luck.
2006-11-15 13:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that it is possible to avoid hurt feelings when ending a relationship.
The right thing to do is to be honest with her and don't let the "breakup" drag on because she probably can sense what you are feeling.
2006-11-15 12:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by pfc_chris_mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not control what another person feels, however, be strong, and it doesn't hurt to martyr yourself a little, if you are concerned for her well being...
"I wasn't that great of a catch, anyway" can go a long way. Whatever you do, don't BLAME HER...
2006-11-15 12:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ravenne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be completely and totally honest and rational with her. Any time someone gets dumped they are going to be hurt, but you would make it way worse by going about it in a bad way.
2006-11-15 12:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by hollym101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋